Does Little means weak ?

[Mathilda-Chan]

Hi everyone !

 

Few month ago, I found that I was a little. And it's not a problem for me.

But well ... sometimes I feel like it makes me weaker and weaker :/

 

I mean, I've always been sensitive, but I feel like being little makes me complain to much about myself, do you feel the same ?

 

I'm needy, and anxious, is due to my little side ?

 

If you feel the same, how do you cope with your little side ?

Edited August 23, 2016 by Mathilda-Chan

[stargirl]

 

 

Being little does not mean being weak.

Edited August 23, 2016 by stargirl

[Mathilda-Chan]

Thanks

[stargirl]

But if you feel you need to talk about what is making you feel weak, you should try a doctor.

Edited August 23, 2016 by stargirl

[Guest Prat]

Em.. No need to try a doctor. It's kinda normal for little to feel insecure and vulnerable in little space, that's why Daddy is there to provide a sense of security and support, or other little friends, or Mentor.

[Mathilda-Chan]

Yeah, I have a doctor (but she's on vacation lol)

 

I hope my post wasn't offensive, I just wanted to know if others littles feel the same.

 

Thanks for your answers

[stargirl]

Em.. No need to try a doctor. It's kinda normal for little to feel insecure and vulnerable in little space, that's why Daddy is there to provide a sense of security and support, or other little friends, or Mentor.

 

I mentioned a doctor in case there was also physical weakness.

[stargirl]

Yeah, I have a doctor (but she's on vacation lol)

 

I hope my post wasn't offensive, I just wanted to know if others littles feel the same.

 

Thanks for your answers

I know I do.

[Mathilda-Chan]

I mentioned a doctor in case there was also physical weakness.

 

Oh I thought you were talking about a psychologist

[stargirl]

Oh I thought you were talking about a psychologist

 

If you go to a regular doctor they can check if there is anything physical causing the weakness. This happened to me once and I had anemia, the second time I had depression, and my doctor referred me to a therapist. My point was that it wouldn't help to get a physical check up, the whole body is connected.

Edited August 23, 2016 by stargirl

[Mathilda-Chan]

I understand

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Hi there!

 

Not at all. I think this is a common misconception when people start out in the community, but it's one that I think we try to correct as a whole. Being Little does not mean that you are weak, insignificant, less. In fact, my slogan for a while during my mentoring was "You are not less simply because you are Little." It's really common to have insecurities about being vulnerable, and you absolutely aren't alone in them. But being needy and anxious don't have anything to do with being a Little. Maybe these things contribute to your personal Little space, but they aren't qualities or characteristics that all Littles must have. 

 

If you don't like the behaviors that you are exhibiting, I suggest taking steps to change them in healthy ways. Because they certainly aren't /because/ of your Little side. So please don't feel that way. <3 

[Guest Princessaj]

I am new. I am weak right now too, because I am opening a door to a

whole new exciting and scary world. It's a big heavy door. For me to

pull the door open and see what is on the other side takes strength. I

have to do strength training to be strong enough to ask my body, mind,

heart and soul to participate in this process. Otherwise, I will hurt myself.

 

I think you have to be very strong to be a little. Not only are you learning/

discovering to trust yourself in this new space, but you are also turning

over your life (in a matter of speaking) to another person when you have

a Daddy.

 

I encourage you to strength train. Coming to this forum is the first step

You could have completely chosen to be in the wings and not interact.

You had the confidence to make this post is a huge step. Asking for help

is a sign of strength. You are stronger than you know.

 

I have read about DDlg like a crazy person, like I am really. I have

embraced this forum. You can read me all over the place. I had my

first Daddy Poser. I am on a racing train to embrace friends. I am

becoming stronger. You can too. Now I have to work on patience.

One of the biggest things I need to walk this journey. If you ever

want to strength train let me know.