Twins?

[princesschibi]

Recently my Daddy told me that he'd like to experience being a little. I have no interest in being a CG so we're thinking about finding someone who would like to take care of both of us. We want it to be non sexual. My question tho is would it be weird if we put out a personal ad seeking a CG for "twins"? It's been kind of a joke our whole marriage(even in laws joke about it) due to how similar we are and how we can communicate without words.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

As a polyamorous individual who shares her Caregiver with three other Littles, I don't think this is weird in the slightest! As long as you and your partner are clear on your expectations and what you want in another partner/Caregiver, such as adding that you don't want a sexual relationship and defining if you want the Caregiver to be a platonic connection or not, you should be in the clear. It may not float other people's boats the way it does yours, so you may not get many bites, but it absolutely isn't 'weird' in the slightest. 

 

Just communicate, be clear with everyone involved, and respect everyone's opinions and feelings. 

[stargirl]

I think this is such a cute way to bond!

[princesschibi]

We've been open before so we've got communication down. I was more wondering if referring to ourselves as twins would be wierd?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

We've been open before so we've got communication down. I was more wondering if referring to ourselves as twins would be wierd?

 

Personally, I don't think so at all. My girlfriend and I refer to ourselves as Sisters, and I have a Big Brother role in my relationships as well. Do what works for you. 

[princesschibi]

Personally, I don't think so at all. My girlfriend and I refer to ourselves as Sisters, and I have a Big Brother role in my relationships as well. Do what works for you. 

 

Thats cool. Yeah,I mean we call ourselves twins in front of vanilla friends and the joking I mentioned above. I think being new to DD/lg I'm being overly cautious and trying to get a feel for how people over all are.

[annemarie]

i read this and immediately thought of me and my oniichan. we were in a brother/sister sort of relationship long before it became romantic and we call ourselves that still in public sometimes (which confuses the hell out of people). anyway, no i don't think it would be weird at all if you put out an ad for that!