Messy Diapers

[Guest pumpkinpatchPrincess]

Okay, this one won't be for everyone so, if it makes you uncomfortable, I would suggest you avert your eyes.

 

Lately, I've started using my diapers for more than just wear and urinating, and have been trying out "number 2".

 

What are your doms thoughts on this? Do you practice it? Is there any way to get a Daddy more interested? Also, does "going" arouse you?

 

I'd love to hear all your answers and experiences with this.

[Dorky]

Personally I have not had any experiences with diapers and "number 2"s, although I think I would be comfortable with it if I was in a loving long term relationship. Although I don't really consider the subject arousing I think (in a strange way) that it's somewhat romantic in a DDLG relationship as it's very very intimate, the only thing that would put me off is considering hygiene.

 

Whatever floats your boat really, I don't think there's any way to get a Daddy "more interested", as this topic is quite controversial and people tend to have strong opinions when it comes to involving fecal matter.

[Guest pumpkinpatchPrincess]

@Dorky,

 

I agree that it's romantic and as long as you watch yourself, the hygiene is not a huge deal. I personally struggle with constant UTI symptoms and have to be EXTREMELY careful, and as long as I don't move around to much or I shower directly afterwards, I am fine and there's no residue stench of 1 or 2.

 

Thank you for you input!  

 

I really hope that diapers and using diapers becomes less controversial, though I understand why and I never thought I'd full out use them.

[EmilyLittle]

I know this post is over a year old but I figured I'd post a response anyway, I'm sure I'm not the only person trying to figure out how diapers/nappies incorporate into the dd/lg dynamic.

 

I don't really understand why you'd want to - as someone who is incontinent and have little to no control of my bladder or bowels - but if you enjoy it then more power to you.

 

I wear and use nappies due to illness, if I could not need them I'd not use them or if I did it wouldn't be often, but, to butcher a colloquiallism, that milk is already spilled, no sense crying about it. I'm learning to live with it.

 

As for getting Daddy into it, well it depends on your relationship, if he's open to new things and you communicate well, then asking him might work. Every relationship is different. I haven't asked my partner (we aren't in a DD/Lg relationship - I'm really new to this) but when I do, I'll just ask him if he wants to try wearing a nappy, especially if he's in littlespace. Even if he doesn't enjoy it he'll probably try it a couple of times before declaring it out.

 

If he's into bondage, perhaps the idea of control/loss of control might appeal to him, whether of himself or you.

 

As to arousal, going doesn't do a whole lot for me, I'm not even always aware I'm going. In some cases when I'm feeling little the knowledge that I've used my nappy feels naughty somehow or can heighten my feeling of littleness.

 

Recently I tried the princess pink rearz (a great nappy by the way if you don't mind the bulk) and the fact that it was so thick and obviously designed with the little in mind I found wearing them in public a little exciting, I don't think I am aroused the act of using them.

 

I can understand the intimate, loving and caring act of changing someones nappy. I don't think there's much to worry with hygeine if you follow the same methods as caring for a chronological child.

 

I'm not sure about the romantic (or sexual) aspect mentioned but my little side seems to be independent to my sexuality. I am trying to incorporate certain aspects across (in both directions) but it's new to me and it's kind of trial and error or success.

 

I don't think wearing or using nappies is all that controversial, most people would assume you needed them if it became obvious you were wearing them and using them. People might struggle to understand why you'd wear and use them if you didn't need them, so it depends if you want to wear and use them openly or tell people why you wear and use them.

 

Another thing to consider is the fact that any muscle not used begins to waste pretty quickly. I don't know whether there would be any lasting harm, I imagine you'd need to potty train again at some stage if things progressed.

 

My only suggestion is make sure you have a good diet that includes plenty of fibre, fruits and vegetables and drink plenty of water. And practice good hygeine.

 

At the end of the day, if it feels good and it's not hurting you or anyone else, then I say go for it!

 

Emily

[Guest Looby-Lou]

Great post Emily Little! Thanks for being so open about your situation and sharing information that might help others. I'm sorry you have those troubles, it sounds like you're amazing how you just get on with it. I'm sure that took a lot of courage on your part and didn't happen overnight, so good on you!

A guy once asked me if I would like wearing a nappy (diaper) and I didn't think I would, and I've never (yet) tried it.

The main thing that puts me off, personally, is that they are so bulky and I find that seriously un-sexy aesthetically, because I have a "thing" about looking big.  (I'm actually very very slim, but that's beside the point.) Having said that,  I'm coming round to seeing that it's also kind of cute and babylike.

Plus if you're cuddling, you know like spooning, there's no body contact, which I wouldn't like. 

And I was seriously wondering about the whole muscle wastage thing, and just even your brain forgetting how to control your bodily functions. So thanks for mentioning that too, I thought maybe I was over-thinking it.  I suppose if someone is able to use the nappy as and when they want, and maintains bodily control most of the time, then it might not become a problem.

[EmilyLittle]

You're welcome no need to be sorry, as the saying goes, you can't change the cards you're dealt, only how you play the hand. Being incontinent isn't pleasant but it doesn't have to be unpleasant. Took me a while to figure that out.

 

I'm pretty adventurous so even if I didn't need them, I'd be willing to try them if someone asked. How else do you learn what you like or don't?

 

I still struggle with wearing them and feeling unsexy. Switching to the princess pink nappy helped a little and my partner being ok and chilled enough is good too. The biggest thing that made me comfortable is talking. My partner finds me sexy despite my nappy and if he can see past it then so can I. I'm learning to see the fun side.

 

I honestly don't know if the use it or lose it applies in this case but I figure it does. At the end of the day though, even someone wanting to become incontinent doesn't bother me, I don't understand why a person would want to, but I don't have to.

 

Emily