Littles without "Little Space"

[stargirl]

Are there any other littles who don't go into a traditionally "little space?" I'm new at this and though I identify as a nymphet, I'm wondering if any other littles or middles also find that they don't get into the "space" so often described on the forum.

[Antoinette]

Everyone is different and experiences things differently. Not all little's go into littlespace, but it's important to remember that just because you don't that doesn't make you any less of a little. Not all Daddy's/Mommy's go into Daddy/Mommy space (yes, it's a thing).

Everybody is so different and their is no singular definition to describe the people of the CG/L community, whether they are little's or caregivers. [:

Just remember that you're still little despite it. cx

[stargirl]

Everyone is different and experiences things differently. Not all little's go into littlespace, but it's important to remember that just because you don't that doesn't make you any less of a little. Not all Daddy's/Mommy's go into Daddy/Mommy space (yes, it's a thing).

 

Everybody is so different and their is no singular definition to describe the people of the CG/L community, whether they are little's or caregivers. [:

 

Just remember that you're still little despite it. cx

Thank youuuuu 

[Guest ZenDD]

There is definitely no textbook definition of what it means to be a little or a caregiver. All of this is completely subjective, and relative to the heart, mind, and experiences and perspectives of the beholder. While there are some comprehensive commonalities that tend to exist between us in the lifestyle, everything written about it is still just a generalization.

 

That being said, regarding "little space", I believe that the caregiver plays a role in shaping and developing a psychological environment for their little to feel safe and free in. A dominant doesn't create the dynamic between he/she and his/her sub, but  maintains and "enforces" the dynamic created by both the Dom and the sub. I think it's important and wonderful when a little is capable of creating and maintaining their own little space, but i believe that the most psychologically fulfilling little space is one that the caregiver helps to cultivate. The stronger and safer the dynamic is, the better the little space can be. The better the little space, the more nurturing, encouraging, and effective the caregiver can be. 

[Guest MissNMTX]

You are definitely not the only one.  If you look back you'll see there are several posts on this. One of which I wrote.  The good news is that everyone is still very welcoming and accepting.  It really does take all kinds. Find and do what you enjoy.

[A Cuddly Dom]

^^ Some very good posts above. Every person is an individual, so however you express yourself is your own unique thing. Don't worry about fitting into roles, or feel left out because you don't go into littlespace like others. Just be you and explore the things you enjoy most about the dynamic. If you like certain clothes, music, games, or treats, then indulge in them and just celebrate yourself. In time you may find new facets to yourself you didn't know were there before.

 

Best wishes

[AngelPrincessGina]

I don't have a little space. I'm there all the time. It look a long time before Daddy understood that totally, but I'm always in a little girl state and Idk how not to be. Being grown makes me feel freaked out and scared. Nope nope nope.

[Guest Littlepup]

If anything I go into "adult space" sometimes to deal with other adults, but that's very taxing on me mentally, so if it's an adult thing I can do alone, I just stay little and do it. I act little all the time. 

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Much like littlepup I don't have a little space. I am a little 24/7 and I have a "big space" I go into for work or adulting! I have a ridiculously high stress profession so I'm pretty sure if I didn't live this way... I'd snap and be living in a tree somewhere with a soccer ball as my companion.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

some of us live the dynamic 24/7 so there is no real "space" for us. plus, there are age ranges. I know I can feel like a bratty 5 year old, all the way up to a young teen. more closely a Lolita or nymphet than a child. there is no right or wrong way to be yourself