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So I've been interested in dd/lg for a while and happened upon an amazing girl who is now my girlfriend and found out she's a little! Only problem is, even though I Want to be a daddy, I'm still so new and iv never been one before. I don't know how to get into daddy space and I feel like (for example), if I try to talk to her stuffies or really any of this daddy stuff, I'll start feeling stupid. But maybe that'll change if I can actually get into the head space. Does anyone know how I could get there?
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So the point of talking to or about her stuffies is to make HER feel good and little.  Your job is to help her feel and be little, be protective, be very very trustworthy, and take care of her.  In return she'll be a very happy little girl and that will make you happy too.

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I know it is, I shoulda mentioned that I know that. Actually, the reason why I'm so worried is because I know if I start feeling weird about it, it'll hurt her so I'm trying to help me for her benefit
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Maybe you can try asking her questions and let her do the talking until you get a feel for it.  "Do you want to color?"  "What do you think your bear thinks?" 

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Thank you, that's really helpful! I will definitely be doing that
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She can (and should) make you feel comfortable talking to her stuffies, just be yourself is my advice, you're the one she chose to be her bf in the first place. Interact with the stuffies in your own way, imagine her fluffy cuddle bear is actually a spy in disguise, working for the ponies, and he knows that you know that and you know that he knows that you know that and he knows that you know ... you get the picture. Now you two are in a completely different relationship than the bear and your girl but you don't want to tell your little that her bear is not who she thinks he is so now you have a special connection of sorts and stuff like that.. I'm sorry if this isn't making sense. Be yourself, she'll love it. Or won't but it's best that way if it goes there..

Edited by Praetorian

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