How do I get my Daddy to do more "Daddy things"?

[AlaskanLittle]

So I've been struggling a lot with this for a few months...

When our ddlg relationship started at the beginning of this year it was amazing! Like amazing! Daddy did so much! Care, love, sippy, stuffies, blankies, coloring, some rules and punishments...

Now most I can get out of him is to pick out my nightgown for the evening... we have a loving trusting secure relationship. I do rummage his phone once and a while, but only internet tabs, mainly to see what he's been "geeking out" over. He really like to read about odd and interesting things. I use to see tabs on ddlg now not a one. It makes me sad. And yes I've talked to him about this. He likes the little/daddy relationship, it's just he isn't stepping up. I try to do things to get his attention, leaving clothing all over he house, not making the bed, throwing tantrums. Nothing works.

Any good websites (cumming without permission tumblr account is a good one I read and I know of) that you like or think could help?

I just want a stronger daddy/little relationship again...

Edited August 21, 2016 by AlaskanLittle

[lilsnoopy]

To be completely honest, this is a fear I have as a little. I don't know exactly how i would react then but i would be devastated so I'm sure this isn't easy for you. You need to have a full length discussion with him about how you're feeling. Communication is extremely important in a dd/lg relation. Let our big side out for a minute and talk to him as a complete equal; tell him you haven't been happy lately, he doesn't take care you you like he should, that if he loves the dd/lg lifestyle he should treat you like it. If he is a daddy dom, and he was amazing before so you know how amazing he can be, he should treat you like he is. You're his little girl and should be the most important thing to him. But that's just my opinion, I don't know if you did that what the outcome would be but I'm wishing you the best. 

[TheGambler]

Looks as he is doing his best but he is far from being perfect. But at least he is trying. You talked with him but things arent changing? Try again if you wish but further subtle attemps dont going to help a lot. Just be honest and talk about it. Tell him about what excites you (we are guys, we are always preoccupied about it!) and wait.

 

Permission to cum, permission to sleep, etc et etc are great as a spice in a ddlg relationship but first you need the basics.

 

Best of luck!

[Antoinette]

Maybe there could be an underlying problem. Perhaps he hasn't been feeling okay and doesn't particularly feel up to be a DD because of personal problems that he may be too nervous to tell you about because he feels pressured to be the big. I'm not implying that it's your fault it's just important to make sure our daddies are taken care of too. Sometimes they need their littles to make them feel secure just like we need them to. [: 

Edited August 21, 2016 by xAntoinette

[Guest Daddy's☆treasure]

First of all, Daddies have a LOT of responsibilities with us littles! You have to understand that taking care of a little can be a lot to handle on top of a job, paying bills and all the other stuff they have to do in the adult world. I know you said you talked to him, but maybe try again and ask him if he is a bit overwhelmed? He might be going through a lot of stress from his job or the like and finds it hard to play the Daddy role all other times? Perhaps if he is feeling a bit weighed down by responsibility, you could help to alleviate some of it by helping him out more? Perhaps ask him if there's things you could do?

 

Communication in any relationship is important but it's even more so, in a DDlg relationship. If it's not stress related or anything to do with having too much on his plate, then maybe it's a good idea to really have an in depth discussion about it all and see how you both feel.

 

All the best.

Edited August 21, 2016 by Daddy's☆treasure

[AlaskanLittle]

I told him we needed to have a long conversation yesterday. But it won't be until tonight when I get off work, we had company last night... 

I'm still wondering if anyone has any good websites that might help him with daddy ideas...

[stargirl]

Sometimes all you have to do is give it time and see what happens.