Mean Daddy :,(

[Babydoll3333]

I am really upset right now because my Daddy was really mean today. He works a job that keep him away and can only see me random nights that are never determined. I get really disappointed when I can't see him or I am looking forward to seeing him and it suddenly gets changed at the last minute. Tonight was a night I was hoping to see him so much after dealing with disappointment perfectly all week (two other times) and when he told me he wasn't going to be coming to see me, he wasn't like "I'm sorry" or "I'm about to tell you something that is going to be dosappointing" he just said it and then changed the subject. When I got quiet he was just like, I guess you don't want to talk and we hung up. I texted him and told him he hurt my feelings and I was upset and he gave me a punishment of not talking to him the rest of the day! He wasn't even sorry that he hurt my feelings! I lost it then and went off and had a huge meltdown over text then he tells me that actually I was getting a surprise because I had earned it... He really was coming to see me but now I lost that! And then when I told him that was not okay that my submission to him meant he was supposed to protect my feelings and help me through hard times he said I wasn't even a Little at all that I was just immature.... Oh my God. My submission is a choice based on giving him control and in return he's supposed to nurture me and help me work on things. This just crushed me today! I think I broke up with him.

[Guest #°*Shy-chubby-bunny*°#]

I'm very sorry for you! I hope you two will rescue your relationship or that you will find someone who really cares about you!

Edited August 20, 2016 by #°*Shy-chubby-bunny*°#

[WalrusBoxer]

I am really upset right now because my Daddy was really mean today. He works a job that keep him away and can only see me random nights that are never determined. I get really disappointed when I can't see him or I am looking forward to seeing him and it suddenly gets changed at the last minute. Tonight was a night I was hoping to see him so much after dealing with disappointment perfectly all week (two other times) and when he told me he wasn't going to be coming to see me, he wasn't like "I'm sorry" or "I'm about to tell you something that is going to be dosappointing" he just said it and then changed the subject. When I got quiet he was just like, I guess you don't want to talk and we hung up. I texted him and told him he hurt my feelings and I was upset and he gave me a punishment of not talking to him the rest of the day! He wasn't even sorry that he hurt my feelings! I lost it then and went off and had a huge meltdown over text then he tells me that actually I was getting a surprise because I had earned it... He really was coming to see me but now I lost that! And then when I told him that was not okay that my submission to him meant he was supposed to protect my feelings and help me through hard times he said I wasn't even a Little at all that I was just immature.... Oh my God. My submission is a choice based on giving him control and in return he's supposed to nurture me and help me work on things. This just crushed me today! I think I broke up with him.

Sorry about that. I don't know, We can guess as to why he's acting but if he won't talk to you, it doesn't matter.

 

He sounds like a bad guy. I think he gets off on making you sad. That last punishment was really messed up, saying he was going to see you and now he won't.

 

Getting upset is not a punishable offense. It is a chance to communicate. If I was a father or even a daddy dom I wouldn't punish the child or little for being upset. Rude back-talk is punishable but being upset is a chance to heal.

[littlelili]

That is not good. Im very sorry you're going through this.

If you break up, it might be better for you. Your idea of submission is correct. You deserve care and love in return. Not weird indifference.

If you don't break up I hope you can talk and solve things. I think that he needs to realize how little things hurt... littles (hehe).

Lots of hugs and I hope everything gets better!

[Guest MissNMTX]

I'm so sorry sweetheart.  You can tell from your post how sad this has made you.

 

I'm no expert, by any means, but it seems to me he's a bad Daddy or no Daddy at all.  It seems like he likes to make you sad. That he enjoys messing with your emotions.  This is not the sign of a good man period!  If he is a Daddy, he has a lot to learn.  If he's calling you immature for expressing your feelings. He doesn't understand the importance of communication.

 

If you do want to work on it I suggest he spent sometime learning about DD/lg.

 

I hope it all works out for you and that your heart heals.

 

This may be inappropriate, but are you sure he's not married?  Something in your story seems suspicious to me. The change of plans last minute.etc.  I hope this is not the case if so you should absolutely break it off. Everyone deserves to be someone's first choice.

[stargirl]

this sounds awful. sorry he didn't appreciate you

[Guest buddhagirl]

Yes, NOT how a Daddy is supposed to act!!!! Well done by standing up for yourself. You deserve kindness, love and respect.

[TheOneWhoKnocks]

ugh no... trust is the first thing. thats just a dick move. all signs lead to him seeing other people too. sorry to be the first to point out the elephant in the room.