My Daddy is coping with mental illness. help!!

[daddysgirl16]

Hi!! My Daddy has some mental illnesses, a couple months ago he was in the psych ward and now he's on a lot of medicines and doing better. Sometimes, Daddy is mean to me when I didn't do anything wrong. Daddy never physically hurts me when he's upset, but Daddy doesn't have coping skills and sometimes he takes things out on me. I know I am going to spend the rest of my life with daddy, we are even engaged, I also understand that Daddy has problems of his own that he is working through, my problem is that being a little, I'm so sensitive and it's hard for me to handle life when my Daddy is being mean. 95% of the time Daddy and I get along and Daddy takes amazing care of me, how can I learn to cope with Daddy's lack of coping skills and freak outs?

[daddysgirl16]

Thank you for your advice. I think some.of those are really good.ideas. Are you open to talking more? I do not have any little friends

[Guest Princessaj]

Yes and sent you a friend request. I am happy to contribute as much as I can.

Looking forward to being your friend.

[Deimos420]

I'm a daddy with mental issues I'm not so much mean as passive aggressive when my little has to go cuz I have separation anxiety if she is away and doesn't pop in for hrs I get this " she doesn't need you " drop but my little and I are ld and she has alot going on I should know isn't that but I get upset and she feels like being not enough for me I love her more then life when I think of her leaving me my heart feels like freezer burn inside my chest and even now in crying my ass off to explain. .. today she was heading out to a night with the girls and told me needed threw hrs get rdy I got upset cuz she's having a house warming party tommorow ..she offered to cancel but even I know as daddy if I say I'm unhappy and she says I won't I should say ty the fact she made those plans wanted to spend two nights in a row our drinking not with me had alrdy made me depressed wasn't like I expected us be able have a good night after I keep her from friends and what she wanted anyone got word of wisdom cuZ after i got upset she said I was restricted to certain times of day cuz I don't let her be alone and hang with friends like hrs a day ... Am I being an ass ??

[daddysgirl16]

I do not think you're being an ass. In all honesty, I feel the same way as you at times. My daddy knows this and he doesn't do anything without me. Have you ever considered being a little or sub?

[Deimos420]

I'm so not tho I'm much more dom I am not sub and I want to be one taking care of her I just need her to need me like u say u do your daddy .. I don't have any other tendacies that are non daddy then that but I do have prob holding line at times she will say okay daddy I won't but it's too little to late she wanted to do what upsets me so she might as well go cuz I know being with daddy isn't what she wanted but that's just chatting and talking .. but it means the world to me but I don't mean to keep driving this but sexually being dom is all I know or want

[daddysgirl16]

Okay, well I say you sit down with your little and have a serious, honest conversation about it. As sad as it is to say, or hear, maybe she isn't the little you need. I understand that you love her, but you have things you need in life as well.

[Deimos420]

She made decision for me broke it off morning after I posted this cuz we're to dif and she thinks I need a way more clingy little is it so wrong I want it to be daddy and his side by side going thru the world hand in hand .. does it make me weak that I only feel my strongest when the one I call mine needs my protection ??

[daddysgirl16]

I'm so sorry to hear that. It isn't wrong that you want to protect someone who is yours; that's one of the things that make you a Daddy! I agree with her that you need a more clingy little. I haven't heard of too many littles that aren't all that clingy or do half the stuff you said she was doing. Maybe she just wasn't in little space as often as you would like a little to be. From what you said, she seemed kinda independent. You want a codependent little and there isn't a thing wrong with that.