Explaining DD/lg

[jennyk717]

Hi,

So my Daddy's prospective new partner and I were talking last night about ask the things. At one point she asked me if I could explain the DD/lg dynamic because it kinda baffles her and she wants to understand it.

 

I tried my best, but I never thought about how you would explain it to someone who isn't a little or a Daddy. Anyone have any ideas?

[PenguinPrincess418]

show him this website! http://www.ddlginfo.com/

[lilsnoopy]

My go-to rule for first explaining things is to go over the roles without labeling it first. so try to explain how you have more childish tendencies and enjoy the playful carefreeness that comes with coloring and watching little shows.Maybe tell her how having a stuffie or blankie comforts you, and so on. Then try to tell her how it is naturally in your personality and you find it safe and comforting to slip into that mind set. Try explain how a daddy is the opposite, he naturally slips into the role of taking care of someone else. He is a dominant but gentle teacher and friend. The two are both halfs that go together and can do activities such a going to the park (she plays and he watches her protectively or pushes her on the swings), have tea parties (she uses her playful imagination and he indulges her endearingly) ex. the examples will hopefully help the girl get a grasp of what it is like and the roles the little and dom fill. this is just a suggestion but i hope it helps.