Feeling Abandoned

[beautifulfool]

I'm still a pretty new little here... but I have a problem I want to know if any othere little here has experienced... I had started talking to someone here and after a few weeks he became my Daddy... but after a while he stopped talking to me completely. Then I find out today he got deleted :/ I just don't know what to do... I feel sad and alone and trapped. Is there any advice anyone had?

[Guest annemarie]

from what i've seen, this is a common occurrence and there's actually an entire thread on it in the resources board. this definitely isn't anything personal. it's just some asshole coming onto the website and hurting young girls. you're not the only one to experience this and, sadly, i doubt you'll be the last. like i said, try not to talk this too personally and keep in mind that you're a wonderful person and didn't do anything wrong.       

[Guest]

well I was in your position but its about 2 years ago >w< i know it hurts when you get close to him and about to fully in love then he suddenly disappeared ;w; 

we cant do anything to just forget about him but the way i forget about pain in my chest and not to trapped in myself is making myself busy by rewatching disney movies, coloring, and talk to new friends on chat cause they're really so nice and friendly people ^^ then be bestfriend with new guy and talk to him alot and fall in love again ^^ trust me you'll get better ^^ believe me there are lot of daddy that would not abandoned you and will love you so much better, hold on there i support you!

 

goodluck, love!

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[Guest FrenchDaddy]

there's actually an entire thread on it in the resources board.

 

 

Here it is: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11758-ghosting-or-slow-fade/

[Princess-P]

Unfortunately this happens a lot. Its very easy to just join a place like this and chat with multiple people and see what you can get from them. And its very easy to prey on young people and bnew comers. It will happen again and again and there really isn't any way to stop it.

 

My best advice is learn from it. Don't repeat same mistakes and behaviors. Your new? You don't need a Caregiver.get to know you first. Rush nothing. If someine pressures you cut them off. If they act too familer with you and claim to want more after only a few days they are probably going to use you. Or ghost on you. Or do the same to multiple people. Whoever is convenient.

 

Remember that like any normal relationship CG/l takes time. The labels are not important. A "Daddy" is no different then a boyfriend when you break it down and you wouldn't claim someone as your boyfriend a few days after you meet them.

 

So learn from this, don't get too down. It was obviously wrong for you and the right person will come along when the time is right. Just enjoy embrasing your littleness alone.