How to write a Daddy Dom looking for a little/middle personal ad

[Guest Princessaj]

If you are looking for how to write a "little searching" ad, go here: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12240-how-to-write-a-babygirllittlemiddleprincesskitten-personal-ad-looking-for-a-daddymommycare-giver/

 

If you don't ask for what you want, you won't get it.

 

I have read tons and tons of "little/middles" personal ads and tons and tons of "Daddy" personal ads. I think that the "right" little's/middles will respond better to you if you speak their language.

 

Here are some suggestions on how to write your personal ad to be -More productive

-Get the responses you really want

-Not waste anyone's time..

If you think the below is TMI, Too Much Information, that's up to you, choose what works for your comfort. The more you share you get closer to what you want.

 

Your personal ad should be written in your "voice." How you talk, the kind of energy you have, your sense of humor and your sense of purpose. This may seem over the top, but write it as if you were talking to them in person. Don't try to act the role of a DD, be yourself.

 

Things to include in a list or written into conversational story telling.

 

1. Be specific about what kind of relationship you are looking for. It will help you out so much so take the time. Use the following if they apply

 

-LDR, Long Distance Relationship

-Online, contact is only online and not in person

-24/7, you want to interact as DDlg all day long.

-LTR, Long Term Relationship

-Exclusive, Monogamous, Poly and any other type of term that defines how you want to be with your little/middle.

 

2. Your hook, what you are looking for in a one liner. Sizzle!

 

3. About them. Some of the things you want in a little/middle. If you think you don't know get primal. These are the things that turn you on, are pretty to look at and who in the DDlg Lifestyle you want to hang out with. As follows:

 

-Their "Real Life" age range. Be specific

If you desire a younger gal, say it in years. If it doesn't matter say that.

 

-Their "Age Play" age range

If you don't know what this is look it up. "Littles" tend to play the ages of 1 years old to 11 years old. "Middles" tend to play the ages of 12 years old to 17 years old. Be specific, because they are.

 

-Their body type, height, tattoos?or not, long/short hair...

These are your preferences. Asking for what you want in appearance is vital. If it doesn't matter to you say so. If you don't say, you will get everyone responding for no reason.

 

-Their "Little/Middle Space" personality type...Likes to snuggle, laugh, play with their stuffies, wear diapers...use words that the little will be looking for that you want. Really talk this part up. If you don't know, then read some littles/members profiles. They will tell you exactly what littles/middles are into.

 

4. Your age. Your real age.

A little/middle of any age will know quickly if you are lying.

5. Your Location, country, city or near to recognizable city and if that doesn't work for you at least give them your time zone. Their Location, Be sure to say where you want them to be...Local, in the same state, in the same country, in the same time zone.

6. Tell them if you are new or experienced. Number of years.

-How are you on rules. Are you strict? Laid back? What kind of punishments are you into...you like to give spankings or are you a more "time out" kind of Daddy?

 

7. How will you care for your little/middle?

-This is the place to say how much you are into being their Daddy. They love to hear all this stuff. Use their words.

"I like (EXAMPLES) to hold your hand crossing the street, wash your hair, sit on my lap, wipe your tears, help you succeed in your goals...."

8.A bit about you...they are going to tell you all about them.

"I like (EXAMPLES) Music-Genres, Anime, Traveling, Sky Diving, Italian Food, The color blue, I have a dog, Video Games."

 

Say what you want. Get what you want.

 

Feel free to question/suggest any of the above.

 

Happy Hunting!

Edited January 22, 2018 by Sachita
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[Mr. Grinch]

Mods this should go in that new section we have!

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi all, I wanted to add another suggestion to share in your personal ad if you think it will make a difference in your search.

Is the DDlg relationship you are looking for "sexual" or "non-sexual." Don't assume that every little/middle is looking for a sexual DDlg relationship. I look very forward to your feedback. Happy Hunting.

[StefanC71_UK]

Sparkle, that is a great post, and as I'm about to write a personal and would have included some of this, there's more in there for me to think about too. I think it's something that all of us daddies should take note of.

[Guest Coyote420]

I'm not really looking for a little at the moment, but if I were, then this post would be of GREAT help. It literally lists everything that one should mention in a post and I really appreciate you taking the time to make it, so others can find the little/daddy they deserve. Truth is that some people are really great, they are nice and everything you'd want in a partner, but people simply won't give them a chance cause of their vague personal.

 

I recommend everyone to read this and go through before making a personal. I have a personal up , but it's only for friends, so I didn't put in much details, however when i look for a little i'll definitly take this post as a reference ^^

 

Also I'd like to add that people should be as active in the forum as they can. It shows that you really want to be part of the community and really embrace the lifestyle, and aren't just looking for a "hook up". Pluss your potential partner can go through your posts and get a better picture of what kind of person you are ^^

[Guest Princessaj]

LOOK!

There you are, enjoying snuggling, cuddling, playing, coloring.... with your very special

babygirl-boy/little/middle/Princess/Princess/Pet

of your dreams.

 

:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:  

 

If you don't ask for what you want, you won't get it.

 

My goal is to help you craft a clever personalized invitation to that special someone, so you can be the best DD/MD/Caregiver you can be, enjoying the DDlg Lifestyle to its fullest.

 

Don't be the one with "views" and "no replies"!

 

:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: 

 

I have a background in branding, marketing, public relations, advertising. Think of me as your "fairy middle older sister."

 

All conversations/messages are confidential.

 

Please feel free to comment here with your interest, check out my profile, where you will find out more about me and locate my kik and Skype handles. Send me a friend request and I am happy to share my WhatsApp or Line handles in a PM=Private Message.

 

I will be using a questionnaire that I previously posted for how to write a personal ad. Please feel free to review in advance to make the best use of our time. https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11936-how-to-write-a-daddy-dom-looking-for-a-littlemiddle-personal-ad/

 

Disclaimer: There are no guarantees in love, life and none with this offer. If the ad is created and you choose not to post it, that is your right. All personal ads will contain the information provided by the member, but are not verified for truth or accuracy. I bear no responsibility for the interaction and outcome of the personal ad that I consult on. A limited amount of time will be available for this task, approximately a total of 30 minutes. It is at my sole discretion to determine how much time I will be able to spend with you. I am in the Pacific time zone. I also reserve the right to deny assistance.

 

Thank you and I look forward to meeting you.

[Littletranspuppyboy]

I would love some help!!

[Guest blah911]

I would enjoy some help as well I am going to send you a friend request to speak.

[The Alpha Ace]

Couldn't hurt to try if you're still helping out

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi Marty, send you a friend request and read your personal ad.

I am on PST and think we a 9 hours different. Lets see if we can 

find a mutual time to connect on kik? Blessings

[Mikaitaku]

this is actually pretty useful. I will have to keep it all in mind if I choose to create a personal.

[Guest MisterBrownEyes]

What a great post, should be pinned in the personals section.

 

Definitely going to use this as a template for my personal ad.

 

OP do you have any suggestions for how to get the best out of your profile space? I can imagine most of the same comments apply. But any tips you can give will be helpful =}

[Guest Princessaj]

FOR EVERYONE: Thanks for the compliment. I asked the forum if I could pin it in the personals section, but they said it would be better posted in each of CareGiver cafe and little space, so I did.

 

I have made other posts offering to help you write your personal ad for free.

 

I am just finishing ads for a DD and a middle. Both have been such a great experience all around. It's a great chance to really dig and bring out your true DD self as well as who you are IRL.

 

This is how it basically works.....

 

I see so many ads that

-say nothing about the person looking

-say nothing about the person they seek

-say the same things that all the other personal ads say, which is nothing.

 

In most cases, it shows that the person looking does not know about the DDlg Lifestyle and who they are in it

 

Our job is to learn how you want to present yourself and decide how you want to say who you are looking for, all tied together, in your voice. You don't have to have all the answers. We can still write the personal ad while you are discovering your preferences and learning about who you are and whom you seek in the DDlg Lifestyle.

 

Step 1. I created a work sheet to help you bring out the things that you want to share about yourself and the things you want in a little (in your case). https://www.ddlgforu...al-ad-for-free/

 

Step 2. We use the details that you fill into the worksheet to start the body of the personal ad. Ideas become words. Words become sentences. Sentences become paragraphs and you end up with a great story to tell. These elements are not all that is required. If the content that has been created does not sound like you, then you are not finished. Before you know it, you have a dynamic and exciting invitation to the person you want to meet that sounds like you are talking to them. 

 

I try to keep the "back and forth" to a minimum, because we will both get worn out. We will have to speak one time, otherwise, I won't be able to get your voice. Everything else is done in messaging. Its better to dive in, experience the process and before you know it, your done. The best thing to remember is that even after you have put in the valuable work to create a great conversation, you can still go back and edit it if you change your mind.

 

I hope I have answered all your questions. If not feel free to message me. Let's get started.

[MoDaddy]

Really great posts Sparkleglitter! I really appreciate you taking the time to help out and post this. I did try and click your link in the last post but it's not working now. Are you no longer offering help?

Thank You

[Guest RedDragon]

This is wonderful thank you Princessaj!!!!!

[Panfagurl92]

I need to talk to you princessaj