How Does it Feel

[Guest QueenJaylen]

Hey there I have never been in little space and I feel like I don't have the right to even call myself a little but I feel like it's somewhere deep inside my guarded self i just need to find it anyway I am starting this thread because I want to know how it feels to be in little space and what is it like and how is it to come out of it I hope to get answers so that I can learn more about my little self.

 

 Jaylen

[Guest annemarie]

for me it's something that's always kind of a part of me, even if it's in the back of my mind when i'm doing certain things, but it really shows when i'm happy or in the right mood. for me, it feels very freeing. it means i don't have to worry about anything except the picture i'm coloring or the movie i'm watching. i deal with chronic stress due to c-ptsd, so littlespace for me is a coping mechanism more than anything else.

[Cimmanom]

Before I start, I do have to say some littles don't have a "littlespace" and that's super fine and doesn't make you any less of a little! I understand the feeling, but I hope you know that no matter what, you're always a little!

 

For me, littlespace is something I keep mainly to myself. I don't usually like being little around people, so maybe you just need to focus on you time and it will come out on its own! I can't give you an exact feeling I get. I just feel very at ease and I feel like I can be who I am inside, you know? It's a very relaxing time for me where I don't worry about things I worry about normally. It's super refreshing and it's always nice to have a break from adult things!

 

As far as your littleself goes, try different activities that might bring it out of you! I'm sure you've heard of most of these before, but try coloring in a coloring book, make a chore chart with cute little stickers every time you complete a chore, play with stuffed animals, anything! I find wearing dresses or shorts make it easier to slip into littlespace, but that's me!

 

Please don't feel pressured to find your inner little! It will come to you someday and I'm sure it will be worth the wait! Best of luck! c:

[Guest MissNMTX]

If it makes you feel better I've been here for a couple of weeks now I guess and I don't even think I have a "little space". Its more like "high school space" or "freshman in college space" and no none has kicked me out yet!

 

For me its just a more relaxed, happy, carefree feeling. Less weighed down by the world!

 

I'm trying to do this myself so I'd say try not to worry about titles or labels so much.  There seem to be really nice people here with a variety of experiences and backgrounds. So there's lots of information too. Take sometime looking around and posting where it relates to you...Not everything will.  In no time, you'll have learned a lot about yourself, what you want and need, and most of all what makes you happy!

 

Good luck and welcome!