Daddy left me...the day he got home from a 4 month trip...

[Guest lil-kitten22]

My Daddy finally got back today after being gone for 4 months! He came and got me from work and drove me home and gave me the presents he got me from Japan...then it got bad.

Daddy then sat down and pulled me on his lap, told me we needed to talk and I wouldn't like it. He left me cuz I'm little...he said that he realized he didn't want a little, but a sub he could use as a fucktoy...due to medical I currently can't have sex and am still a virgin...

 

I don't know what to do! My daddy left cuz I'm little...

 

So he had gotten back together with me after discussing and creating compromise. Today he said that he only got back together with me to make me happy and broke up with me through text. I feel so broken and unwanted right now...

Edited August 22, 2016 by lil-kitten22

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I'ms very sorries thats you are going through this! You and I donts know each other ats all buts honestly....you deserve sooooo much better then that. It was good he talked to you ins person but everything else just seems cruel. For you to waits for him to come home and he brings you presents, then shows you affection only to say those things.

 

There is nothings wrong withs being a little ors for beings a virgin. I knows this must be hurting you very muchs but I think perhaps he did you a favor. You deserve a Daddy who will always be patient ands understanding, it sounds likes this Daddy did nots have those qualities.

 

I hopes I havents overstepped any boundries ands I am very sorries ifs I have. I do hopes you are feeling more cheerfull soon thoughs!

[DaddysLilCrybby]

Oh, Hun - i'm so sorry - i was recently in a very disappointing break up, too - this is terrible an sad an probably you will feel terrible an sad for a while - just know that, even though it hurts, it's a good thing that he was honest with you - wouldn't you rather be freed from someone who doesn't appreciate you so you can find someone who does? I'd honestly rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't really want to be there - everyone deserves true love - even if it's with yourself - anything less is cheating ourselves from living our lives to the fullest - so, take all the time you need to be sad an cry an mourn - but, don't stay there more than you need to - there's so much waiting for you in life

[Princess-P]

I'm sure it hurts right now and that's OK. But I agree that its for the best. He realized that what the two of you had wasn't making him happy and that you couldn't give him what he needs. While that may be unfortunate for you its better than him staying and being unhappy, which would make you unhappy in the long run.

 

Be sad for a little while if yiu have to but then move on. Enjoy the single life and love yourself until you find the right person.

[Guest Dominari]

I am also sorry to hear about it. This could have been even worse. He could have broken up with you through electronic avenues, he could have also cheated on you. I thought it was nice that he took you onto his lap in breaking this news. However, I think the way he described what he wanted was very distasteful (fucktoy) especially considering your disability. 

 

Keep your head up and use the support that is available in this forum.

[Guest Mad.Max.1080]

This is sad but it is really nice frm him to be honest, he make a difficult desition for the best, not only for him but for you too. It's better this way than forcing you into something. Hope you can be over this soon

[Fighter-Wolf]

Good side: He made you sit on his lap and went honest.

 

Bad side: Maybe he didn't used the best words.

 

It's, of course, a difficult situation for you, since you were waiting for him these months and hoped good thing to happens once he's back. It's sad to be separated from a person that is really important to you. But, remember, the most important person for you, must be yourself.

 

Try to cry all the pain you feel right now, but also treat yourself kindly and do things that could make you feel better.

[cris20]

My Daddy finally got back today after being gone for 4 months! He came and got me from work and drove me home and gave me the presents he got me from Japan...then it got bad.

Daddy then sat down and pulled me on his lap, told me we needed to talk and I wouldn't like it. He left me cuz I'm little...he said that he realized he didn't want a little, but a sub he could use as a fucktoy...due to medical I currently can't have sex and am still a virgin...

 

I don't know what to do! My daddy left cuz I'm little...

 

I'm sorry for that things will get better

[Guest MissNMTX]

I'm sorry this happened to you. In the long run, it is better for you though as you can find a Daddy who will appreciate all of you and be there for you to help you through hard times like what you're going though with your health right now.

 

His word choice was beyond poor. To not chose you because of the very thing he knew you were it beyond hurtful. I do think he did it in the most honest and gentle way he knew how too. Its best to break up now before things got more involved. Ending up resenting each other because you're not getting what you want/need would be worse. It destroys the love and good memories you do have of each other.

 

sending you hugs and wishes for a brighter future.

[Guest lil-kitten22]

My Daddy finally got back today after being gone for 4 months! He came and got me from work and drove me home and gave me the presents he got me from Japan...then it got bad.

Daddy then sat down and pulled me on his lap, told me we needed to talk and I wouldn't like it. He left me cuz I'm little...he said that he realized he didn't want a little, but a sub he could use as a fucktoy...due to medical I currently can't have sex and am still a virgin...

 

I don't know what to do! My daddy left cuz I'm little...

Update: So after he had left for a few hours and he got buzzed he opened up his emotions to me. We talked a lot through text, then later I let him come back over with a couple demands. We ended up talking everything out, which was his downfall when he chose to try to leave (no talking), and making a few compromises. As I do have a slut side to me and am a masochist we will do more rough play, and he still likes my little he just also wants to see the big side of me too. We also decided (MY IDEA) that because I am not ready to do everything he wants from me and I would love to give him, that he may sleep around some. We also discussed limits as far as this goes, and it is what is best for us. It was really nice for him to come back and hold me while being more open with his feelings and talking everything out. 

Also, he is more Master/Dom/Sadist then he is Daddy, but he found a Daddy side just for me and that is why I chose him. His Master and Dom side are what I need to feel safe and loved and taken care of. 

Thank you for all the kind supportive words you all gave, I am so happy to know that there is people out there that understand and want to be there for each other. 

I Love You All                    

[Guest QueenJaylen]

Just make sure you don't get anything from him sleeping around penetration sex is not the only way you can get an STD so be careful. 

[Guest lil-kitten22]

Just make sure you don't get anything from him sleeping around penetration sex is not the only way you can get an STD so be careful.

We discussed tha there will always be a condom in use and he will regularly get checked