How do I be a better Daddy?

[RogueDaddy]

Okay I've been in the community since I was 14 and I'm now 19 and I want to know little intricate things that would make me a better Daddy? Does anyone have any advice or help? Because I just want to be better at the whole relationship itself because I feel sometimes I distance myself unintentionally and what are ways to help with that because I feel really bad and I expect the Little I'm with at that time to forgive me even when I left her. So please any advice or help would help.

 

Thank you for taking the time to read this.  

[stargirl]

Work on yourself and you will be in a better place to tend to the needs of others. Ask yourself the tough questions you're avoiding. Why do you need the distance? Is it the little or is it me? The truth is rarely black and white.

[Guest Coyote420]

  On 8/13/2016 at 6:51 PM, stargirl said:

Work on yourself and you will be in a better place to tend to the needs of others. Ask yourself the tough questions you're avoiding. Why do you need the distance? Is it the little or is it me? The truth is rarely black and white.

 

I love this reply, it's so deep!

I know I'm not helping in any way , I just had to say it haha ... I think she's spot on tho

[Guest annemarie]

i also wanted to add that you need to recognize before you start looking for a little that she's going to require a lot of attention and that's going to take up a lot of your time. not all littles are like that, but the vast majority are and the vast majority are hurt when you don't pay attention to them because they think it means you don't care about them. if you need space, make sure you tell your little and don't just stop talking to them with no warning. that's very hurtful and very harmful to most littles. basically, make sure you're in the right place to have this kind of relationship before you do. so essentially what everyone else has said: work on yourself before you bring in someone else.

[SugarPrincess]

as someone who tends to distance myself from my daddy when im anything but happy( so it happened a lot) we made a rule where if im mad or anything i absolutely have to hang out with him, i dont have to talk, i dont have to do anything i dont want to do, we can just watch a show together or play a game together and eventually i realize how silly i was to be mad. idk maybe its something youd want to try, force yourself to stay with them despite your emotions.

 

(sidenote: i also had to work on not being mean while i had to hang out with my daddy so if thats something you need to work on too then you should work on that first)

not sure if that made 100% sense but i hope i was somewhat helpful