who initiates?

[dawn]

I'm pretty new to this scene so i was wondering if there's some sort of unspoken rule that either a cg or a little initiates the start of a cg/l relationship? Or does it differ for each person?

[Guest Queen Of The Damned]

It's both I think mainly but you know everyone does things differently. =^~^=

[Guest AngelicKitten]

I mean it can be either the little or daddy. So don't be scared to make the first move.

[FitPapaBear]

Well that's an interesting question. When my kitten and I first started of, we were a petplay couple (M/s). Over time I noticed she had little tendencies and since I had Daddy experience I sent her into little space. She's now my little, she's always been a little but didn't know it till I found her. I guess you could say I initiated it.

[dnswd]

Like any other relationship either party can initiate it.

[Guest annemarie]

like everyone else has been saying, it really does depend on the relationship. for example: with me and my partner we were already living what could be considered a ddlg lifestyle (he worked, i didn't; i often age regressed and whatnot) and when i found out what it was, i wanted to pursue it. he was into it too, so yeah! here we are!

[Antoinette]

For a long time I didn't even know I was a little. The way I was in a relationship just kind of happened naturally and I always found myself with 'daddies', so I don't know. If it means a lot to you then initiate it but if you think it will happen naturally, let it. Usually naturally is the easier way.