I don't think my daddy wants to be a daddy..

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So.. I'm new to this and so is my partner, when I told him about ddlg he was into it and wanted to try it out with me because I really enjoy it.. But lately he just doesn't seem to like it when I'm in little space and he doesn't act very daddyish, recently he told me he doesn't want me to be little all the time (and I'm really not most of the time around him.. I've only gone fully into little space 3-4 times around him) and that he doesn't want our relationship to be just ddlg.. And I can understand that.. But it seems like he never wants me to be little.. He says he just doesn't know what to do as a daddy because he has no experience with it.. But it seems like he doesn't even wanna try..

[Guest annemarie]

sit down and talk with him about it. ask him if it's what he really wants and if the answer is no, then i guess that's that :/ if he says yes to that question however, ask him if he would like to learn more and if the answer to that is yes, direct him here.

[15884_1655600399]

sit down and talk with him about it. ask him if it's what he really wants and if the answer is no, then i guess that's that :/ if he says yes to that question however, ask him if he would like to learn more and if the answer to that is yes, direct him here.

Thank you, I'll try this and see how it goes

Edited August 11, 2016 by Guest

[AngelLove]

I had the same problem with one of my exes, turns out he wasn't into it he just wanted to make me happy. Whatever happens just know youre super amazing!

[Guest Coyote420]

Yeah, I think it's as AngelLove says. I think he's just pretending to be into it to please you because he's worried about losing you.

I have thought about if I would supres my ddlg side if I met a girl that just wasn't into it, but was amazing in every other way, and I simply couldn't do it. DDLG is a part of me , and so is BDSM. If a girl is not into that stuff it's be as tho she's denying me to be me and i'd resent her with time , even if I trully loved her.

 

I hope that your bf will learn to like it or that you'll talk out an alternative with which u'll both be happy, but if not you'll have to ask yourself if you are willing to suppress your little side for him.

[Guest MissNMTX]

Sometimes talking about these things and they way they make you feel...the depth to which you feel them can be really hard.  It might take lots of conversation and compromise, but I hope it works out for you somehow, because Coyote420 is right no one should have to suppress part of who they are...not in love.

[stargirl]

I say move on.

[Guest missamylittle]

Maybe it would help if you sat him down and directly asked him "What are you worries and reservations about sharing this lifestyle with me?" This way he will have the opportunity to lay everything out on the table. Hopefully this can open the lines of his communication. Try to find solutions and provide comfort for any concerns he may have. Then try it again. And if he still isn't into it, then you have to decide if you're okay with just vanilla or if you want to move onto another relationship that can provide your needs better. 

 

I wish you the best of luck

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