Not the Normal Little (?)

[Little Quinn]

So, I hope not to offend other Littles when I say this, but I find I'm not as needy as many Littles seem to be...even when I'm in Little Space. I don't find myself being very needy of my CG, I feel bad for not needing her...is that weird? 

 

I've learned to enjoy my solitude, and being alone is something very natural to me. I'm not USED to needing that social interaction. I love to meet new people, and I like to talk to people, but I find I have a hard time carrying conversations, and I have a hard time socializing. As a child and in my early teen years I was shunned by pretty much everyone and was a complete loner -even the kids labeled Outcasts thought I was too weird to hang with them-, so I've adapted to that loneliness and I fear that it'll muck up any relationships in the future, including the one I'm developing with my CG. 

 

I tell her how my day goes what I'm doing, what I've eaten and she's proud and says I'm a good girl, but I fear that my lack of socialization skills, and the fact I'm not a needy Little -basically someone who loves and craves attention from their CG's- that it may not work out, even though I really want it to...

 

I hope I didn't offend anyone. I think it's fine to be needy sometimes and want/crave the attention, but I've learned/adapted to not need that, and I feel in a DDLG it's the exact opposite. 

 

Anyone have any advice towards something like this? It could be me over-thinking but I'd rather set my mind at ease than let it run much longer and go completely off-kilter. 

[Guest annemarie]

if this site has taught me anything, it's that there is no one specific way to be little and if you don't fit all the "little criteria" you're not automatically kicked out of the little community and world. you're definitely still valid and still little, even if you don't have a constant need for attention (it's probably actually a lot easier to be little that way). also talk to your mommy and tell her how you're different from most littles. i saw your post about finding her. i bet she'll be understanding

[FitPapaBear]

Be yourself ^.^, if your Cg can't accept you for who you are then it's better off you end it and search for another. In time as your relationship goes on you might find yourself becoming more and more "needy". You must allow yourself the time and your Cg must allow you the freedom and guidance necessary for you, and your relationship to evolve. Edited August 11, 2016 by FitPapaBear

[Guest missamylittle]

There is no correct way to be a Little. You're individual! And thats something to feel good about. I wouldn't worry about your independence unless your CG has expressed to you that it bothers them. But if it makes you feel better you can always express to them "Hey I just wanted give you fair warning that i am not needy because of..." and then explain. I hope this helps and again, don't worry about being yourself and doing what you feel is most comfortable.