daddys_doll Posted August 10, 2016 Report Posted August 10, 2016 I just went to Walmart without my Daddy to get some chocolate milk and a side dish for dinner, and I felt really nervous and vulnerable. I ended up meandering around looking at cute stuff and I bought my first paci and (kinda) sippy. But my nerves were all over the place. :c
Guest annemarie Posted August 10, 2016 Report Posted August 10, 2016 *waves hand dramatically* i doooo!!!! i think this comes from the fact that i was badly physically and sexually abused as a child.
Guest ~*QueenSaiya*~ Posted August 10, 2016 Report Posted August 10, 2016 I'm always super vulnerable while in little space and tend to be much more sensitive to things that are sad or hurtful. 1
Guest Moonpie Posted August 10, 2016 Report Posted August 10, 2016 And me!me more sensitive as well and more emotional too
Guest Kitteny kitten Posted August 10, 2016 Report Posted August 10, 2016 I kind of made a topic like this a few days ago. But yeah I am in little space alot and when I am out in public while little I get pretty scared. Oh I should say I go I to little scare when scared and its weird
AngelLove Posted August 10, 2016 Report Posted August 10, 2016 Me too! I get super scared when im in little space and in public.
Guest Queen Of The Damned Posted August 10, 2016 Report Posted August 10, 2016 When my little would go out on her own in little space I would make sure she had her phone so when she would get scared or nervous she could just call me and we could talk while she's out in little space so if she ever needed guidance on something or a reminder I would just be a call away. That and she would have my picture on her phone to look at if she needed to calm down she could look at a goofy picture of me and giggle and feel alright. =^.^= Hope this helps. Try maybe talking to your Daddy/Mommy/CG when you get nervous. Or get a goofy picture of them to laugh at when your scared. ;3
TimidLittlePupen Posted August 11, 2016 Report Posted August 11, 2016 I tend to be really, sensitive, emotional, and easily scared in little space(I'm kind of a scaredy-cat out of little space, but it's worse when I'm in little space)
Cuddly Bumblebee Posted August 11, 2016 Report Posted August 11, 2016 I also am often really nervous in public. Sometimes I feel myself really small and scared. :< Does someone know, what to do in these situations?
littlejane Posted August 14, 2016 Report Posted August 14, 2016 -sigh- yes I have been having similar issues lately. I'm here and open to talk if anyone wants to share stories/ give and receive advice c:
lilsnoopy Posted August 16, 2016 Report Posted August 16, 2016 I sometimes have those problems too, but daddy has helped me a lot. I found these vitamin c drops in lemon, orange, and grapefruit flavors and i suck on them to calm me down. this really helped me during school, I'm a really competitive student so I get stressed around midterms and exam or for any major project so i just take a 'candy' and focus on sucking on it to calm me down. Daddy and I have this thing where as soon as i need one i'll tell him or text him which flavor I got (and he'll know i am stressed or scared and will help calm me down). Any kind of hard candy would probably work. Also in my bag I carry like the really tiny stuffed animals, like the ty ones. Even if i'm not cuddling one, it's comforting just to have one. I also made this bracelet out of strings and wear it around my ankle and it's a constant reminder that i'm little and I always wear it and it's kind of like a safety blanket in a way. I hope this helps a little bit or give you guys a few ideas
Harley_Quinn Posted August 16, 2016 Report Posted August 16, 2016 Yes all the time! I feel super anxious in little space. And its terrible
Cimmanom Posted August 17, 2016 Report Posted August 17, 2016 It's really a coin flip for me! I could be a super big mess or I could be completely calm, cool, collected, and confident (alliteration for da win!). I feel more comfortable in my own skin in littlespace. A lot of worries that are usually just sitting like a rock in the back of my head are lifted and I feel a lot better! At the same time, I can relate to the feeling of being vulnerable. Sometimes it's just a lil rough out there for us littles!
Guest Princessaj Posted August 17, 2016 Report Posted August 17, 2016 Hi, just a little offering by a new middle. I downloaded Skype (free) to my phone and I can see my future Daddy in a Skype/vid call like he is right there with me. Potentially future Daddy suggested the "Line" app, free text/call/video version too. Sending you lot's of hugs.
Guest Coffeefarism Posted August 18, 2016 Report Posted August 18, 2016 It happens to me. I'm in general really sensitive but when I'm in little space I get even more emotional and when something bad happens I cry so easily. It can be a bit bothersome.
Poppet in Wonderland Posted August 18, 2016 Report Posted August 18, 2016 I feel more sensitive at times.
LoralieHaze Posted August 18, 2016 Report Posted August 18, 2016 When I'm in little space, I do feel more vulnerable and sensitive, but (perhaps surprisingly) not nervous. I actually feel more nervous when I have to be an adult but I find my littleness can help with that. Also while in little space, I'm less shy, more clumsy, and I tend to ask a lot of questions.
Guest littlerapunzel Posted August 19, 2016 Report Posted August 19, 2016 Ohhhhhhhhhhh I am having this issue lately! So much that I'm scared of my little space....so I find myself pushing it away which makes me even more uneasy and sad. I just came back from a visit with Daddy and I can't seem to get back to life without him. I mean, we are still together but live in different states and I'm just struggling so much. I'm even hiding my little space from him because I feel so vulnerable. I feel paranoid and insecure. I've never really been through anything like this. I'm trying to come on here a bit even to read other little's experiences. I'm hoping that will help. If anyone has suggestions or a similar experience with long distance relationships and comforting your little side, I am all ears. I just feel yucky all the time.
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