New to this

[DicksOutForHarambe]

I'm entirely new to this sort of thing, but I found it interesting enough to invest my time into it. Was wondering if I could get some pointers on the idea of it.

[PastelLittleOne]

I guess a good start would be figuring out where you fit into the community first, are you a Little or a Daddy/Mummy/Babysitter/Caregiver? then working from there to work out what you want out of this lifestyle and if its really for you  

[FitPapaBear]

Take the BDSMtest.com, get educated here (plenty of info on the stickies), chat with littles and Bigs in the chat room to get a look into the stuff and welcome.

[DicksOutForHarambe]

I guess a good start would be figuring out where you fit into the community first, are you a Little or a Daddy/Mummy/Babysitter/Caregiver? then working from there to work out what you want out of this lifestyle and if its really for you

[DicksOutForHarambe]

I see. What sort of role would a daddy or caregiver have to fill, are they roughly the same?

[Guest AngelicKitten]

Google is your best friend. That's how I find all my questions I had about ddlg/cglg. 

I recommend reading from a few different websites because there is a lot to cover and it's just easier and faster to find the information that your asking about.

Hope this helps.

[Guest annemarie]

i would recommend reading through the links on this post

[BigJ_Daddy]

I was just introduced to this concept by a friend. Looking back in my history this type of lifestyle is very fitting to what I've been looking for. I'm a dominant or daddy if you will. I want to get to know more people in this lifestyle. Currently single looking for a female little.

[Guest Dominari]

Research and learn to understand your role as A Daddy. It takes a lot of dedication and sacrifice to be a good DaddyDom. You have to find ways to be there for them and offer positive reinforcement. Read the posts particularly from littles. You will begin to pick up on their traits (clingy, bratty, jealousy, scared, emotional, etc.). They will truly become loyal and submissive if you can meet those needs. It also doesn't hurt to be playful. This role isn't one like the standard "Master". Relax and have fun. 

 

Once you are fortunate enough to have a relationship it is really important to get to know her. Open communications is imperative. You will need to find out her likes and dislikes, limitations, how much of themselves are they willing to submit, what level of punishment is acceptable, and how to apply the discipline. Recognize that punishment doesn't always have to be the typical spanking. But always remember that aftercare is VERY important. It must happen. If you do not calm them after a punishment it can leave a scar. They will become scared and then it can become an abusive relationship.

 

The role of a Daddy can be very rewarding. I believe that a little can offer the most love and dedication than any other relationship. Good luck with growing into this lifestyle.