Sometimes does being little "get in the way?"

[Guest Kitteny kitten]

[LoralieHaze]

I actually find that being little helps in these sorts of situations. That might seem contrary so let me explain.

 

It helps me to be Little when I know I have to do Big stuff because they balance each other out. I can't handle it when someone gets angry at me but I know that I can counterbalance it by doing something like brushing my dolly's hair, one of my favorite, most calming little activities. When I have to be responsible and do something like go to the bank, I will color in my princess coloring book when I get home. If I have to do laundry, or any sort of cleaning that I hate, I will schedule a Doc McStuffins marathon afterward. I've mentioned on here before that I take one of my small Fluttershy stuffies with me when I'm going to be doing something difficult or stressful, like go to the doctor or spend time with my sister.

 

As much as I think a lot of us would like to be little around the clock, I don't think it's possible, I don't even think it would be entirely healthy. But on the other side of the coin, not being little at all is draining, or very boring at the absolute least. I feel like we need both little and big time to be able to function properly.

 

It's not that easy for me to go into little space so obviously you and I differ, but hopefully this will help, at least in gaining some new perspective.

[Guest Kitteny kitten]

I actually find that being little helps in these sorts of situations. That might seem contrary so let me explain.

 

It helps me to be Little when I know I have to do Big stuff because they balance each other out. I can't handle it when someone gets angry at me but I know that I can counterbalance it by doing something like brushing my dolly's hair, one of my favorite, most calming little activities. When I have to be responsible and do something like go to the bank, I will color in my princess coloring book when I get home. If I have to do laundry, or any sort of cleaning that I hate, I will schedule a Doc McStuffins marathon afterward. I've mentioned on here before that I take one of my small Fluttershy stuffies with me when I'm going to be doing something difficult or stressful, like go to the doctor or spend time with my sister.

 

As much as I think a lot of us would like to be little around the clock, I don't think it's possible, I don't even think it would be entirely healthy. But on the other side of the coin, not being little at all is draining, or very boring at the absolute least. I feel like we need both little and big time to be able to function properly.

 

It's not that easy for me to go into little space so obviously you and I differ, but hopefully this will help, at least in gaining some new perspective.

being in little space after the stress is wonderful for me but I find myself slipping into being little when I am under stress or nervous. (like using my little voice cuz I am scared ) and I think part of the reason I have been in little space so much is because I have been off for the summer (I dont work at the moment ) but I will be going back to college on the 22nd and I hope I can start being big more offent when I need to be.

 

Thank you for your veiws. It's nice seeing how others think.

Edited August 9, 2016 by Kitteny kitten