Maintaining with children

[Pattykat]

Daddy and I are sort of new to this type of relafionship, so far both of us are extremely happy with it..

Anyways we have a baby together and I was wondering if there was anyone else in a ddlg type of relafionship where you had a baby... she is only two months old so me and daddy are very open about it.. I'm only worried about when she gets a little older and starts to understand more, if we would need to be more restrictive with how we are together with baby is around..

[Guest LordEmtheDinosaur!]

You can still call your Daddy, Daddy even when she gets older as lots of parents refer to each other as Mommy and Daddy

Your baby would think you're fun enjoying the same shows/movies and playing with toys, colouring etc.

Pacifiers may have to stop when she's older but that's up to you, she could tell people that you use one which would be embarrassing at most but deny deny deny!

Also it may be hard weaning from bottles/pacis etc if she sees you still doing it.

[Petal]

It's true.  You can probably call him Daddy for a long time - maybe until she's 7 or 8 - without it being weird.  I never thought about that!!

 

But yeah, you might need to keep the other stuff as a not-around-her sort of thing when she turns two-ish if you don't want it to affect your relationship with your kid. ;_; 

[Pattykat]

Well at least I can enjoy the full experience for a little while longer, it's going to suck having to watch what we do around her but she's worth it ❤

[kiara]

I have thought about this quite a lot. Daddy and I have been DDLG now for about a year and are loving every moment of it. However, I'm now 5 months pregnant and have struggled with getting bigger, not fitting in my 'little' clothes any more and just generally worrying about when I have to wear my 'adult' hat and my 'little' hat. But daddy has reassured me countless times that we will still make time for us and our dynamic whilst also being awesome parents. I have been able to call him daddy in public now which I couldnt do before but people hear me say it, see im pregnant, and just think its a parent thing I'm doing (hehe). Let me know how you guys get on! I'm only 6 months behind where you are with your baby I must say, I'm pretty excited to meet our baby.

 

Out of interest did you have a little boy or a little girl?

[PastelLittleOne]

I babysit my nephew and when we watch cartoons together ect he just thinks I'm being a cool auntie haha as the previous posts said stuff like pacis ect might have to be stopped around them but you'll still have time to be little like any parent has time to themselves, I'm sure you'll find a good balance