Not the littlest little

[omgkate]

I realize that I'm not as little as some littles can be. I don't want to color all the time, I don't want to be treated like a little in public, etc... But I do want to invest in a relationship where we want the same thing. I want to want you in every way. I want you to want me to be better than I am. I think that's the biggest appeal in the DDlg lifestyle* for me; the relationship dynamic.

 

*thats not the word I want to use but it's the closest to what I'm trying to say...

 

Are there any other littles that don't feel so little? I like being independant in my own life. I dont want to have to answer for everything I do, but when it's important, I want to be held accountable. I like stuffed animals, but I dont want to have a tea party with daddy with them.

 

Are there daddies that prefer not to be called daddy unless they truly have that type of power over thier little?

 

Is this what a middle is?

[Guest AngelicKitten]

I want everyone to know this...

Just because you don't do things that many other littles do does not mean you're not little yourself.

There is no rules or guidelines on how to be a little and what you have to do to become one. 

 

In my eyes just like any other person out there we all have different personality's and like different things. Some little's are tom boys and others are super girly. Some little's are independent while others want guidance. Some little's like diapers and others don't. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. Don't feel like you have to do what everyone else is doing to be a little yourself.

There are things others little's do that I don't like to do but others love to do but I don't second guess what kind of little girl I am based on what they do in their little space.

 

I would say maybe you're a middle but just do your research and make your own decision on what you are and where you think you fit in. It's not really my place to say.

 

As for other daddies being called daddy... I know doms/caregivers that prefer other nicknames but honestly you can address your dom or caregiver how ever you want. You don't have to go by what you think you should call him based on how you see other little's relationships. Every relationship is different.

 

Just explore ddlg and find your own way do indulge in it THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. It's all about just being happy and trust me you will find a caregiver or dom that will love you and the relationship you have with them.

Edited August 8, 2016 by AngelicKitten

[Guest Tag you're it]

^ ^ exactly as angelicKitten says

[MeowShy]

AngelicKitten is spot on  
 

[Petal]

I'm a ridiculously unconventional little.  I'm super independent and bossy.  I like girls, so I don't want a daddy.  I'm six when I'm little, but I still like diapers and pacifiers.  And when I signed up here, I thought I wouldn't fit in.  That my brand of littleness was too out there.

 

But everyone accepts me because I'm just as much a little as anybody else.  And I'm so happy to have found myself, and I'm so happy to be sure of it.

 

AK said it better than I can.  We're all different, but that's what makes this community so strong.  We are so adaptable and accommodating.  Find out what you like, what makes you happy, and finding people who love you - friends or caregivers or whatever - will be the easy part.

[Guest MissNMTX]

I wrote a post similar to this a few days ago. I'm still learning and exploring, but I have to say everyone has been very kind and accepting.

 

There are at least a few "littles" on here who feel more like you.

 

Just take your time to explore and learn. Find what makes you happy and then go live it!

[T-Daddy]

I realize that I'm not as little as some littles can be. I don't want to color all the time, I don't want to be treated like a little in public, etc... But I do want to invest in a relationship where we want the same thing. I want to want you in every way. I want you to want me to be better than I am. I think that's the biggest appeal in the DDlg lifestyle* for me; the relationship dynamic.

 

*thats not the word I want to use but it's the closest to what I'm trying to say...

 

Are there any other littles that don't feel so little? I like being independant in my own life. I dont want to have to answer for everything I do, but when it's important, I want to be held accountable. I like stuffed animals, but I dont want to have a tea party with daddy with them.

 

Are there daddies that prefer not to be called daddy unless they truly have that type of power over thier little?

 

Is this what a middle is?

 

I think you just articulated what I'm looking for in a relationship.  I want to help her become better, and it doesn't matter what you call each other.