New help?

[Pattykat]

I've been with my SO for two years now and I have always been interested in a ddlg relationship but my boyfriend was one of those people who thought "calling your boyfriend daddy is gross".

Recently I've come up with the courage to tell him that I was into it and would want him to consider it. To my surprise he was open to it, and played around with it during sexy time. I don't think he understands it's more than just sexual... I don't know how to give him advice on how to be my daddy when I'm not the most experienced either, only having one other daddy for a short period of time. I know it takes time and I'm willing to work with him

Edited August 7, 2016 by Pattykat

[Guest annemarie]

when i first joined this community, my oniichan was unfamiliar with it all as well. i linked him to particularly good posts on here as well as wrote down a bunch of stuff for him in a notebook and linked him to tumblr posts that described it very well. the most helpful post i've seen is this one! i would link him to it

[Petal]

That's a super helpful link o_o

 

I'd just like to add: be patient.  It's a complicated thing to get into, so it might take some time for both of you to understand what you want.  Though, you did wait two years to tell him so I bet you've got patience down.

[Pattykat]

Thank you for the link! ❤ super helpful.

And yes I have no problem taking things slow, we have excellent communication with this currently and talk about what we both like and want to get out of it and also our limits. Thank you