Singles, what are you looking forward to when you get a partner?

[Guest Tag you're it]

Daddies, what are you looking forward to when you get your little? Littles, what are you looking forward to when you get a daddy? Switches?

[Drifter]

Holding her, treasuring her, loving her, never letting go...

 

Watching the cool rain pitterpatter on the window while she cuddles safely in my lap, sucking on her pacifier.

 

Singing random Disney songs in the car while we go for a quick drive down the road or a big fun trip across the country.

 

Grinning as she bounces up to me for a hug, giving her a big cuddly squeeze, and a pat on her tushie before she toddles off again to play.

 

Staying up late playing video games until she starts to yawn, then putting on her jammies and tucking in together for beddybyes.

 

Snuggling together in our blanket fort, both padded, little, and silly, watching movies and munching on yummy snacks.

 

Playing in the snow all day before finally coming inside to share hot chocolate and warm cuddles.

 

Making her blush when I subtly check her crinkles in the store aisle while she's picking out a new toy.

 

Stroking her hair as she colors in her book with her favorite plushie by her side, and seeing her beautiful smile when she looks up at me.

 

Cooking a proper meal together one night, then feeding her macaroni in her highchair the next.

 

Listening to her giggle as she makes a mess of her bib and face, knowing a bubble bath is sure to follow.

 

Getting her bathed, diapered, dressed for bed, and curled up in my arms with her bottle or sippy, peaceful and content as I sing a lullaby and rock her to sleep.

 

Holding her, treasuring her, loving her, never letting go...

[Guest GrapeApe]

To be honest, I don't really know... I have been such a loner my whole life, that I imagine a genuine / authentic connection with another person (little, middle, etc.) would just be something worth living for... Life can be so hard sometimes, especially when you are alone, that just having another person there to share it with is the main thing I am looking for.

[Guest Tag you're it]

Jmac, I totally get what you mean! I have IDEAS of what I want, but I have a feeling rhat when this person comes along, I'll have a totally new perspective. I think it's all at the core wanting their company and to share experiences. Edited August 7, 2016 by Tag you're it

[14400_1655600390]

Hmmm, great question.

 

What I'm looking for in a daddy. I want one that's silly, but serious. One that makes me feel loved and protected. Safe. Not a 24/7 thing because my (future) work is very serious, so compartmentalizing work time with personal time is imperative. I do want a family.

 

I'm not sure what else, I've been alone for so long that I'm unsure. Just wanna feel like i matter.

[Drifter]

While my original reply was very emotional and sweet, it focused primarily on the littleness because of the topic.  The truth is, there's a balance between big and little.  The adult world can't be ignored.  Being able to intermingle the two is how it really works.

 

Days will be spent sitting on computers wasting time, others will be full of chores, and of course there's the working world.  But being able to keep each other company is what really matters, in whatever form that takes.  Coming home from work and she jumps into my arms...or she might even offer me a sippy, too.  Or she comes home from a long day herself, and I help her unwind and possibly regress.  Normal grown-up times are important as well, going out to movies...though it might be animated, a nice dinner out, a good conversation, just simply going shopping together, or taking a walk in the park.  The combination of big and little is vital.  You can't ignore either side in one another or in the relationship.

 

Working together, building a life, helping each other through the hard times, sharing in the good ones, these are vital aspects of any relationship.  It takes work, openness, cooperation, honesty, compassion, and support.  It's important to build a real relationship that will last, not purely one between daddy and little.  But of course, even in those grown-up moments, it's nice to mingle in some little time.

[Guest Coyote420]

Well you first have to look at the person, not the little/daddy. No matter how great a little is, if you don't click with her on a non-little level(if that makes sense haha), nothing else will help. So I reccommend that when you look for a little/daddy you forget about ddlg at the start and just how you click as people.

 

Seccondly, when you do click you have to see if you're on the same page about what your relationship would be all about, a few of mine ended cause we werent on the same page.

 

Last but not least, you have to see that you are sexually compatible. Offcourse relationships arent about sex, but I wouldn't wanna give up my dirty kinks cause the girl isnt into that haha

[14400_1655600390]

Well you first have to look at the person, not the little/daddy. No matter how great a little is, if you don't click with her on a non-little level(if that makes sense haha), nothing else will help. So I reccommend that when you look for a little/daddy you forget about ddlg at the start and just how you click as people.

 

Seccondly, when you do click you have to see if you're on the same page about what your relationship would be all about, a few of mine ended cause we werent on the same page.

 

Last but not least, you have to see that you are sexually compatible. Offcourse relationships arent about sex, but I wouldn't wanna give up my dirty kinks cause the girl isnt into that haha

Agreed! With all of it lol.

[Guest Moonpie]

what am I looking forward to...

I'm looking forward to the awesome moments and memories we make together

Feeling safe and loved in his arms knowing that everything will be alright

having someone I can share secrets with and entrusting him with me

being able to be myself around him knowing he loves me for me

not having to worry about adult things because my daddy is there

playing hide and seek and other fun stuff

enjoying each others company

calling someone my daddy and meaning it

doing adult activities and not just little stuff

and a whole lot more!!!

Edited August 7, 2016 by Kitty xx

[T-Daddy]

Someone who shares and can keep up with my apatite for cuddles.

[Guest MissNMTX]

Never having had a real 'Daddy" before I can't imagine the release. The sense of "Finally, after everything." I'm waiting for the mutual comfort and recognition. The friendship, trust commitment.  I'm not really sure, but I imagine a sense of completeness. Does that make sense?

 

Because I want this, feel like I need this to be a happier more self assured person I'm willing to wait. As long as I have too . I'll learn, I'll study and grow. In any relationship you have to have something to offer.  The day it all works out it'll be worth all the time put in on this side of it.