Well, that's /my/ last LDR...

[PortlandDaddy]

I've been having a fun and sweet LDR with a little for the past week or so.  We have exchanged hundreds of fun texts and pics back and forth, and experienced what I thought was a mutual affection and appreciation.  It felt like it was leading to something real.  I was really starting to like her; she embodied everything I wanted in a little.  But right in the middle of some fun play about planning a tea party, she blocks me and I can no longer reach her.

 

I didn't realize what had happened at first.  Then the realization slowly dawned on me.  Blocked.  Wow.  Really?

 

I guess she didn't care about me enough even to say goodbye.  Sure, I'm a man, I'll get over it quickly enough, but really, what kind of world do we live in that people feel that they can just /do/ that to someone?  And especially a little, who of all people ought to be ultra sensitive?  If you ever read this, shame on you.  I am a real person with real feelings.  You can't treat people like this.

 

And so because of that, and a couple of other misadventures in LDR land, I'll never try an LDR again.  This daddy is going 100% local.

 

Signed,

 

Sad bear.

[Guest Tag you're it]

That does sound very inconsiderate. But littles aren't supposed to be ultra sensitive. Littles are supposed to be themselves, whoever that is. She may have had something weird come up in her life, or have maddening anxiety, or just be mentally ill. You can't judge all little dispositions and LDR from that experience. Assholes are everywhere. You'll find a little that will appreciate you enough to be straightforward with you, just try to keep that experience in mind. Maybe give it a bit more time before putting any attachment into chatting.

[Guest Don Pablo]

ldrs suck most of the time

 

props to the kids that do make them work

[dariachick]

Grrrrrr I'm sorry. Yes you're a guy but you are allowed to hurt too. At the very least a I can't deal or Kk bai text seriously is that too much to ask???

 

 

 

*buys a box of voodoo doughnuts and leaves them by you*

 

 

Hugggggs. Hopefully better things are on the horizon.

[Simon.dd4lg]

Know the feeling I have had similar experiences and would be very wary of an LDR in the future

[littlelili]

I am sorry, too bad she did not have the guts to tell you whatever she had to b4 leaving. *Hugs Portlandaddy* She may have had some troubles but that's not excuse to leave like that.

I'm not a fan of LDRs as well, but I hope you find the bestest little in the world!! local or ldr she is out there looking for you!!!