should i tell??

[Guest annemarie]

i am currently in therapy and recently me and my therapist took an unexpected break because she quit at her current location because of disagreements and is now working somewhere else. anyway, during that time, i discovered i'm a little and i'm just wondering if it would be a good idea to tell her that i'm a little or not??? i think it might be because it's part of my healing i think, but i also don't want to be judged. anyone got any advice how to broach the subject???

[Spooky]

If you really trust your therapist and you think discussing this will be helpful, I say go for it! 

 

A therapist will more than likely be open and understanding, just make sure you have a positive way of explaining it to her, it could be very likely that she isn't familiar with "littles" at all.

 

Best of luck!

[Petal]

If she's a good therapist, she's going to use this information to help you rather than judge you.  Therapy is the one place you should feel open and honest, and its the therapist's job to promote that environment.

 

In other words, if it's important to you, tell her.

[Guest QueenJaylen]

Tell her she is not in the place to judge you only to help you if she does judge you then she is not good at her job. I don't know if you believe in God but if you do remember this only he can judge you cause everyone else doesn't matter

[Guest rosie chan]

50/50 chance of her reaction, so it's up to you. i've had therapists be completely wonderful, and others who were super rude to me. but the truth is, if she's not right for you, you can always find a different one. easier said than done, i know. but still. the option is there. good luck, you! <3 ^_~

[Guest lil-kitten22]

I think it would be best to tell her. I don't see a therapist, but I talk to my doctor about a lot of things. When I brought up my DDlg relationship to her, she actually really liked it! She said the structure of it was actually helping me get better!