I've fallen out of love with my Daddy...

[Sarah889]

Has anyone else fell out of love with their Daddy?
He was my entire world, I was so in love with him, I gave up everything and made him and our relationship my top priority. But I've never been his, and he hasn't been that good to me.
Over the last good few months, I've fallen out of love with him. I don't even see him as my Daddy anymore, cause he just doesn't act like one should, I always thought I would be his world back, but he seems more interested in himself and other people. We literally have grown apart in to a relationship that is more like friends with benefits (but we live together) and have been together for a year and a half...

Is this normal? Advice? Anyone else been in the same boat?

[TallNerd]

Why don't you talk to him about this?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I haven't been the same boat with my Daddy, but it's certainly happened to me with other partners before. Sometimes, it happens to both of us at the same time, and it's like we can feel the moment it just isn't the same anymore.

 

The truth may be hard to hear, but not everyone is meant to be together forever like society tells us we should look for. One of the greatest things having multiple loves taught me is that not every relationship lasts forever, but that doesn't make them any less important or real or good while they did last. The fact that you are no longer in love with your partner does not mean you didn't have an amazing relationship. It may just mean that you've grown apart, and no longer for each other anymore. You still benefited from the time you did spend together.

 

It sounds like he might be feeling similarly, so maybe it's time to sit down and talk. Don't stay in a relationship because you want to fix something that you already know you've let go of. Don't stay because it's convienent or easy. That's not fair to either of you.

 

You both deserve a relationship full of love and happiness. Even if that's no longer with each other. It isn't easy, and it's still going to be difficult. But the end of any relationship will be.

 

So grieve the loss of your good parts, but be glad that you had the foresight that you did to recognize when the good parts weren't enough anymore. <3

[Villmarb]

Its ironic that you have given yourself a self fulfilling prophesy

..quote ..I haven't been the same boat with my Daddy, but it's certainly happened to me with other partners before.

 

can it be that the EXPECTATIONS that you have for that daddy are too HIGH?

 

Maybe you should write down and talk about realistically what is it that you truly seek in a daddy?

 

Look as a daddy myself - Being a Daddy is more than just giving spankings. "Daddy" is more than just a name or a title. It's a mindset, it's a personality, it's a way of being. And most importantly it's a great amount of responsibility. To a Daddy, his little is his world and the feeling is mutual.

 

ok?

[daddys_doll]

i had that feeling with my previous partner, I tried so hard for 4 years to make it work and I eventually realized that I was not in love with him anymore and that I didn't want to be with him. I was tired. I was depressed and I was unhappy. I was also in love with someone else, which made it suck even more. I eventually had to break up with him and by the time I did it was FWB thing though we lived together. We never did anything or had any decent conversations. Of course, by the time I left the relationship was over for me so I moved on pretty quickly as I was in love with my Daddy. Sadly my Ex doesn't understand that and harbors a lot of hatred towards me, but there's nothing that can be done with that.