Assertive littles?

[Guest Tag you're it]

Being an assertive little is so weird. I'm not meek, shy, and tiny. I'm thick, talk a lot, and am unafraid in saying what's on my mind. I find it easy to approach doms too, like we're on the same level. Is there a word for this? Is there anyone else that feels submissive but isn't the cardboard cutout OF submission?

[Guest annemarie]

i'm a lot like you!! well i can be. i can also be very submissive. it depends. i'm sure we're not alone in this uwu

[14400_1655600390]

*raises hand* To be fair, I'm really shy at first, but im not a total cutout of a sub. I like being one, and I feel comfortable there. With some Doms when their switch isn't on I'm perfectly fine.

[Guest Tag you're it]

Rad thanks guys! Was scared I was crazy alone.

[Guest whatever]

Omg yes! Someone finally described it perfectly! Thank you, I really thought I was alone in this. 

[ToraHime]

I am only ever submissive towards daddy and only a handful of other men like some rp partners so it's nothing weird .

[Princess-P]

Maybe its just me but I feel like submissive people are often very Dominant out side of their personal relationship. Being a submissive is powerful.

 

I dominate at work, and in my day to day interactions with people. I'm only really ever submissive with one person. All Dom's are my equal, including my Daddy. Being a submissive doesn't make you less.

[Guest Tag you're it]

I think the thing that concerns me most, aside from feeling alone sometimes in this, is I don't see many daddies that like this type of little. Maybe I'm not looking hard enough.

[Petal]

I'm definitely not a submissive little.  If someone tries to make me do something, I will defy them until the end of time.  They need to learn how to work with me rather than against me, and then they would basically get their way.  

[Guest QueenJaylen]

Me personally I'm not shy I love to talk but and I am not skinny either I am also think(in the right places)lol but no honestly I have never been a shy person and I have always loved to talk but I will NEVER EVER feel like I am equal to my Master or Daddy whatever you prefer I mean I'm not a femenist so I've always felt like men are just naturally more dominant thats just me but everyone is different. But I'm just naturally submissive

Edited August 4, 2016 by QueenJay

[Petal]

Oh, on the topic of feeling on a different level: 

 

I always feel equal to my caregiver.  I feel they are more in control, sure.  But I never consider myself less than them.  I'm just the other side of their coin.

[14400_1655600390]

I'm kind of dominant in my rl interactions because of reasons that I can't control. I however am not like that naturally. So now I'm like a switch, and sometimes I will defy because 1, I am just being bratty and 2, because I don't always like being told what to do. That being said, I'm more sub than anything.

[Guest QueenJaylen]

I know that I am not less than I just don't think we are equals I can't explain it I just feel like we are on different levels lol I don't know

[Guest QueenJaylen]

Maybe its just me but I feel like submissive people are often very Dominant out side of their personal relationship. Being a submissive is powerful.

  sooo true thats me all the way oh my goodness