Married and now discovering I might be a little. so confused

[newgurl]

I have a lot of questions about DDLG because I just learned that it's a thing and I think I am a little. How do I know? Is it a bad thing? I am married, how will this effect that? I have always been childish and everyone thought I would grow out of it but I am now 21 and am often made fun of and ridiculed for the things I like and the way I act. My husband's friends even asked him if he was sure he wanted to be married to me. I am just very confused. Can someone please talk to me about this because I want to understand if there is something wrong with me. Please help me...

[Guest Sweet_Daddy]

It all depends on the dynamics of your relationship with your husband. Is he older and more dominant? Does he accept and enjoy age play and roleplay?|

Does your husband like to be in control and nurture you and you let him make everyday decisions?

These are things you need to consider about your relationship with your husband.

Some married girls/women get an online Daddy if their partner is not into a ddlg relationship.

Good Luck Newgurl.

[newgurl]

So there is nothing wrong with me? I have never met anyone who was in a ddlg relationship and I always thought it was fake or just kink. But is it ok that I sleep with my lamb and like to color and watch my Disney movies. lots of people tell me that it's weird that I like my blankies so much and that I get so s a red over stupid stuff. Is there something wrong with me? I tried to talk to my husband about this and his response was "well maybe that's what's wrong with you".

[Guest Nikoś]

Try not to start with everything you want to, because for someone who is not really into ddlg, he would be overwhelmed with everything. If you would tell your husband that you like to be under his control etc etc, then you may try to include ageplay or roleplay in your relationship. Just make sure that it's all not too fast

[Princess-P]

There's nothing wrong with you, just as there's nothing wrong with any of us... Well not for being littles or Caregivers anyway lol.

 

Being married doesn't matter. And your husband doesn't need to be into it. He doesn't even need to be dominant. You don't need a Daddy. Being little has nothing to do with your partner.

 

Just be you, keep doing what you love. He must love you regardless, that's why he married you. What other people think has no barring on what is between the two if you or what you yourself do/feel.

 

Welcome to the community.

[Guest Tag you're it]

This may be really confusing, but you definitely just need to talk about it! There is nothing wrong with you. There are freakier things to the average person than DDLG anyway. Here is a great place to explore your little side and getting information. Please don't think there is anything wrong with you. Try to educate yourself on what ddlg is and eventually what possibilities there are for you.

[Villmarb]

I agree with all my above posters - there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you.

Just be open and EMBRACE your inner feelings - GOD i wish i had a wife that told me she was having LG feelings - :0)

 

but - to me as that daddy still seeking - It all depends on hope open your husband is, the connection both of you have, and the power exchange that you as a lil wish to surrender. Not to top - but show him to focus more on guidance and nurturing you as his very special little, helping you to grow as an LG/Wife/Mother/Woman/Soulmate and explore all the aspects of DD/LG yourself.

Let us know how this aspect works out.............ok?

[newgurl]

I am scared that he will not want to embrace my inner little.

[Princess-P]

Of course it would be ideal if he did but remember he doesn't have to take part. Just accept you for who you are.