i just needed to vent

[Guest annemarie]

as many of you know and like a lot of other littles on this site, i am a part of this community as a way to cope with being a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. i made the mistake of telling someone else that and they immediately jumped on me, telling me that i was lying about being a survivor, so i would just have a reason to indulge in my "sick kink" and that i am hurting minors and other survivors and idk. it just really upset me, moreso than things usually do, because i am not lying, i've been called a liar about this a lot so i was already sensitive there, and idk. i just felt like how dare someone try to police what i'm doing to cope. you have no idea what i've suffered to get this far and then to have you insult my lifestyle, which doesn't affect them at all by the way (except in the way they choose to harass people in this lifestyle), it's just...ugh. i'm probably not being very clear, but i just needed to vent. i am a survivor and this is okay and they don't know me and they're wrong, i know. i just...needed to vent because i still feel bad about it despite the fact i know those things.

[TallNerd]

as many of you know and like a lot of other littles on this site, i am a part of this community as a way to cope with being a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. i made the mistake of telling someone else that and they immediately jumped on me, telling me that i was lying about being a survivor, so i would just have a reason to indulge in my "sick kink" and that i am hurting minors and other survivors and idk. it just really upset me, moreso than things usually do, because i am not lying, i've been called a liar about this a lot so i was already sensitive there, and idk. i just felt like how dare someone try to police what i'm doing to cope. you have no idea what i've suffered to get this far and then to have you insult my lifestyle, which doesn't affect them at all by the way (except in the way they choose to harass people in this lifestyle), it's just...ugh. i'm probably not being very clear, but i just needed to vent. i am a survivor and this is okay and they don't know me and they're wrong, i know. i just...needed to vent because i still feel bad about it despite the fact i know those things.

Sorry about that. I recently lost all my friends because they found out about my kink.

People are messed up

Just know you're among friends.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

you know you, Annemarie. you know what you've lived through and how it made you stronger. you will get through this, look what you've already done! you lived to tell your story. you're strong!

[Mrbeardman]

Excuse my language but Fuck Them.  No one has the right to treat you like they did. You keep being the awesome person you are and pay no mind to people that need to break someone down to feel better about themselves

[Petal]

No one should ever say "that didn't happen to you".  Like, how untrusting do you have to be to think that?  And especially something as serious as abuse?

 

That's so terrible.  That person is just terrible.  Little stuff aside, you never invalidate someone's feelings.  It's really selfish.  And how you handle those feelings is your own business.

 

I'm so sorry this happened to you... 

[Guest QueenJaylen]

I'm sorry to hear about this unfortunenate thing, I understand where you are coming from it also happened to me and I was told that I was lying because i "like sexual things and I am so open about the way I am sexually" so after that I just never told anyone at this time I was still into active in my bdsm relationship and so then I began to feel insecure anyway this is not about me it's about you. I have never been told it's just a kink but I have been told that I was lying for attention and it hurts and I am sorry that you were judged about your lifestyle but I want you to know you are not alone. 

[Guest Zephy]

Mean people are every where who'd try to put you down. Don't pay them heed.

You know what you went through and you're a strong person.

That's all that matters!

[Little_Ella]

Sending you a big hug! I'm sorry people can be so ignorant and disrespectful xx