Unloyal Daddy's?

[Guest Daddieslittlehorror]

 

*PLEASE DONT REPLY TO THIS THREAD ANYMORE I HAVE HEARD ENOUGH THANK YOU*

 

before I get into anything, I would like to say that I am new to this forum so there might be a post like this (so sorry for repeating /.\) and I am not in a relationship with this guy but we were talking and trying to get to know each other....

 

Okai so the story, so I was talking to this guy and we were talking about a relationship and getting to know each other. Well he wanted a relationship after like 10 minutes of talking so I guess this should of been a red flag of a fake daddy or a 'fuckboy'. But I had some adulting to do and was really stressed out and told him I just wanted to rest for a while because I was stressed. Well I came to look on here cause I wanted to look on the little space page, because I thought it would make me feel better....

 

Wrong... I see that the guy I was talking to had just commented on another littles post, flirting with her. Granted we weren't in a relationship, but we were talking and he said he was interested and he was using pet names and making me feel really little and happy. But after seeing this I don't know what to do. I feel like he is probably going to try to take advantage of me, or end up cheating on me if we end up getting in a relationship. Does anyone have any advice .-. I feel really upset about this situation, I know it's not a huge deal but still.

~Azia ^ . ^

Edited August 2, 2016 by Daddieslittlehorror

[Guest StainedBlack]

I find that a lot with anyone. Not just daddies. It rare to find someone to commit online and in the kink community. If I had a dollar for every time I've seen someone disappear or lie I'd be a rich daddy. Just be guarded until someone really clicks. Never send nudes and that normally weeds them out.

[TallNerd]

before I get into anything, I would like to say that I am new to this forum so there might be a post like this (so sorry for repeating /.\) and I am not in a relationship with this guy but we were talking and trying to get to know each other....

 

Okai so the story, so I was talking to this guy and we were talking about a relationship and getting to know each other. Well he wanted a relationship after like 10 minutes of talking so I guess this should of been a red flag of a fake daddy or a 'fuckboy'. But I had some adulting to do and was really stressed out and told him I just wanted to rest for a while because I was stressed. Well I came to look on here cause I wanted to look on the little space page, because I thought it would make me feel better....

 

Wrong... I see that the guy I was talking to had just commented on another littles post, flirting with her. Granted we weren't in a relationship, but we were talking and he said he was interested and he was using pet names and making me feel really little and happy. But after seeing this I don't know what to do. I feel like he is probably going to try to take advantage of me, or end up cheating on me if we end up getting in a relationship. Does anyone have any advice .-. I feel really upset about this situation, I know it's not a huge deal but still.

~Azia ^ . ^

The man in question said Welcome and said two words in french. I believe you are looking too much into this. And frankly, you should of told the man in question instead of making a thread about it.

 

Communication is key

[Guest Daddieslittlehorror]

I find that a lot with anyone. Not just daddies. It rare to find someone to commit online and in the kink community. If I had a dollar for every time I've seen someone disappear or lie I'd be a rich daddy. Just be guarded until someone really clicks. Never send nudes and that normally weeds them out.

I completely understand and I wouldn't just blame daddies I know this happens with littles too, it was just my situation. Thank you for the advice •~•

[Guest Zephy]

I'm sorry but how much can you even know about a person within 10 minutes?

And someone who start calling you pet names from the start is another red flag.

 

New and inexperienced littles often gets taken advantage of this way.

Don't get involved with these type of guys. They are most likely fake daddies.

[TallNerd]

I'm sorry but how much can you even know about a person within 10 minutes?

And someone who start calling you pet names from the start is another red flag.

 

New and inexperienced littles often gets taken advantage of this way.

Don't get involved with these type of guys. They are most likely fake daddies.

She didn't even say what he said. It could be she's just reading too much into it. After all he posted in public, it couldn't have been that salacious

[Guest Daddieslittlehorror]

I'm sorry but how much can you even know about a person within 10 minutes?

And someone who start calling you pet names from the start is another red flag.

 

New and inexperienced littles often gets taken advantage of this way.

Don't get involved with these type of guys. They are most likely fake daddies.

Thank you (:

[Guest annemarie]

how long were you guys talking before you saw him flirting with this other girl? how do you know he was flirting with this other girl? the problem here is that we don't have all the facts and you really don't know whether he was flirting with you or not. all of that being said, from what you have told us, this guy does sound like a player and i would stay away from him if i were you.

[Guest Daddieslittlehorror]

how long were you guys talking before you saw him flirting with this other girl? how do you know he was flirting with this other girl? the problem here is that we don't have all the facts and you really don't know whether he was flirting with you or not. all of that being said, from what you have told us, this guy does sound like a player and i would stay away from him if i were you.

We have only talked today, but yes he was flirting with me because he wanted to be in a relationship with me and all. I understand you don't have all the facts but I feel like your being harsh on me in the fact that is this happened to you, you would be fairly upset.

[Guest QueenJaylen]

She didn't even say what he said. It could be she's just reading too much into it. After all he posted in public, it couldn't have been that salacious

First off excuse me if my grammar/spelling and punctuation is horrible I have to worlds worst headache and can barely focus.

 

I get what you are saying Daddyslittlehorror I get that like really honestly real shit because it happened to me a few times in real life and online, and it was not a good feeling I regret every minute I wasted on these guys, BUT like TallNerd said it was PUBLIC how much could he have done you know, I mean I get it though you were upset and you felt like he was being a fuckby but, if he had any type of sense in the world he would have just sent her a friend request had messaged her personally that is what you need to find out about. I AM NOT TAKING SIDES but I do know that is you are going to be unloyal you have to be smart about it not that I have done it but you know from experience and from just kinda guessing you gotta think that he wouldn't be public about especially if you can read it you know unless he didn't care and just was like "fuck it idgaf about her" which I'm or I hope he wasn't in that mind set but again communication is extremely important. I recommend you talk to him about it honestly don't just thorw him away. Like you said you didn't know him very well, get to know him find out what's going on. 

 

BUT SERIOUSLY I WISH NOTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU.    

[Guest Zephy]

I think I'm getting confused with some things that are being said and I feel there is too much emphasis put on the thread title.

Now was the "man without name" unloyal? No he wasn't, because they never were in a relationship.

Was the "man without name" flirting with that other girl. No he wasn't - but he was flirting with OP.

Should she be wary about about "strangers" who start calling pet names right from the moment they start talking? Yes, that's a red flag.

 

It's a common practice by people who aren't seriously invested in having a relationship and usually have ulterior motives.

 

Based on the manner he approached this girl (OP) he should be a guy to watch out for.

I'd say better safe than sorry.

[Princess-P]

Be cautious of anyone who wants to be in a relationship right away. Also since your new don't even worry about a relationship. You don't know yourself or what you want from someone else right now anyway.

 

That being said,without knowing what this man said to the other girl we can only assume that he wasn't actually saying anything that bad since it was public. Either your reading too much I to it, or he said something so inappropriate in public space why would you even be asking what you should do when the answer would be obvious?

 

The truth if the matter is no doubt that being 18, and being new to a dynamic. You probably got excited and swept up in how this person made you feel. Maybe he did flirt with this girl, or you read too much into it, and jealousy is a bitch. Either way, right off the bat, pet names and asking if you want to be in a relationship right away are just huge red flags and if you had more experience you would have known this isn't someone you should get upset over.

 

Its not the first time this has happened here, it won't be the last. Keep your guard up and don't get attached.

Edited August 2, 2016 by Princess-P

[HeCallsMePrincess]

slow your roll sweetie. you just met him. he's not obligated to only speak to you. no one is ever obligated to only speak to one person.

[Guest QueenJaylen]

But I had some adulting to do and was really stressed out and told him I just wanted to rest for a while because I was stressed. Well I came to look on here cause I wanted to look on the little space page, because I thought it would make me feel better....

 Reminder she said this, if you have never been in this position then you wouldn't know I myself have been in a situation something similar to that. It's hard when you want to have someone to let go to and then someone is at the right place at the right time saying the right things it's hard to resist just letting go, granted it's not the best thing to do when you need/want it that's that so I get it, it's hard so try to understand that she gets the fact that she did not make the best decision so you no longer have to say that I'm pretty sure she did post this thread to be told the same thing over and over so just be mindful because soemethings that are said and that have been said are either unnecessary or repeated. I hope I didn't come off as rude in this      

Edited August 2, 2016 by QueenJay

[Guest Daddieslittlehorror]

slow your roll sweetie. you just met him. he's not obligated to only speak to you. no one is ever obligated to only speak to one person.

Yeah I know, but when someone come off as Intrested, and asks to be in a relationship even if they are playing you don't think it's respectful to be faithful just in case a relationship was gonna happen I get your point but still