Always missing daddybear

[Guest PrincessBabygirlKittenAnge]

So my daddy and I have been together for like 8 months and like. I'm so happy and lucky to be his and it's like the best thing that ever happened to me.

But.

We used to talk basically all day every day. And now circumstances don't permit that.

And lately I feel like the distance is making him more distant emotionally. I know it's not my place to make him talk to me but i don't want him to feel alone and I worry about him so much. But then I feel like maybe he's trying to distance himself from me on purpose ? To get rid of me ?

I'm just scared because I love him so much and he is my whole life but I am worried it's going downhill ? Or maybe I'm just too insecure in the relationship ? How do I know if he had changed his mind about me ?

[Guest annemarie]

what you really need to do, rather than try to change his mind, is talk to him and make sure that's what's going on to begin with. if it is, then ask him what you are doing that is making him feel the way he does. it could be that you're doing nothing and he's just a jerk. or it could be that he's going through his own stuff and doesn't have as much time to talk to you. if he doesn't want to leave you, express your concerns with him about him leaving anyway. it'll prevent there being misunderstandings like this in the future.

[Guest Officedad]

Be honest, talking is the cure to most things, tell him how you feel and offer help in making more time.

[MrB]

I completely agree talking about it is best and try to make it clear your just talking about it. That you're not accusing him of doing anything wrong as he may get defensive. I can tell you from experience guys and particularly Daddys can be stubborn and silly and try to be strong and bear the problems by themselves so as not to worry you so if he thinks your blaming him it will feel like you're being unfair. If you just tell him how you miss talking because you care and how you said you feel lucky to be with him

I know about this as it happened to me I was trying to be all strong and just made my little feel unwanted and she lashed out at me and then things fell apart and it was because she attacked me I got defensive and only saw things clearer after and realized how stupid I was being but sadly that's life. I'm sure you can let him know and if he really does care then the distance won't stop him he will still care for you.

I wish you all the best

[Guest cottoncandyheart]

Aw cute, I thought I was the only one who called my daddy daddybear! But this has happened to me and it sucks. Maybe your daddy is stressed/feeling down/busy? The best thing you can do is talk to him, and let him know how you're feeling x