Liking girls and being little.. ?

[Guest ammy]

Hi hi ! I've been feeling down because there's something I can't figure out? It's that I've always wanted to be together with a girl, but I feel like the "ddlg" thing doesn't fit in with that?

I know there are mommies, but still I'm really confused.. sorry if this isn't making sense !!

 

I'm not sure what to ask even..? I guess, if anyone has been in a girl and girl ddlg relationship, how does it work?

sorry again I can't word this right (>~<) I've never met a mommy so I've never been able to ask about it, but thanks in advance for reading

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Hi there! I've been in more than one form of a girl/girl ddlg relationship. I've been a Mommy before to a Little girl, and I'm currently dating another female Little.

 

It works exactly the same way as a relationship between any two people. In the case of my girlfriend and I, it's a lot of cuddling, movie nights, and Little shopping sprees!

[Guest ammy]

Thanks for replying, that sounds so sweet and cute!

I guess I just need to talk to more people here, but you really helped ! (´ ω｀❁)

[Guest bambi❤babygirl]

i was actually about to ask the same question myself. it's nice to know it's possibly to have a mommy.

[Princess-P]

Keep in mind that the dynamic is actually Caregiver/little so gender or sexual orientation really doesn't matter. DD/lg is just a more common name and the type of relationship you see more often in media ( like tumblr, fetlife or sites like this one.)

 

You can have a Mommy, a Daddy, both, or neither.

[AngelineBaby]

i was actually about to ask the same question myself. it's nice to know it's possibly to have a mommy. 2

OR to be a mommy care giver

[AngelineBaby]

sometimes i feel the need of giving care and handle with care   but i dont have anyone to do so

[AngelineBaby]

also.. i like girls too 

[HeCallsMePrincess]

I like girls, but I happened to be married to a man. also, ddlg doesn't work for me with another woman, because I may be submissive to men but I am very much an alpha female and know I couldn't submit to another woman.

[Guest annemarie]

as lin manuel-miranda said: "love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love, cannot be killed or swept aside."

 

basically, you will find your mommy. she's out there. and you're a wonderful and valid little. whether or not you like girls has nothing to do with that. you're a little no matter what. <3

[BH_Bambi]

I'm a Bisexual little. I have a male Daddy, but I'm open to a relationship with a female. That could be with us both being little together, or me letting out my switch side to be her Caregiver and Domme. Another way for girls and CG/l to be compatible Edited July 31, 2016 by NotQuiteRapunzel

[LittleCharmed]

Your not alone. I am a little and I like girls. Never had the opportunity to be with one. I am submissive to my male Daddy. My dream has always been to let out my switch side to be her Domme/mommy.

 

It does not matter if you like girls. You are still a little no matter what

[santhemaniac]

Also, I'd like to add that there are masculine leaning women who often prefer to be called daddy.they can be masculine presenting or have a masculine headspace. So there are same sex women, who are in ddlg relationship, and sometimes, they do choose the label of 'daddy' over 'mommy'

[stargirl]

I like girls, but I happened to be married to a man. also, ddlg doesn't work for me with another woman, because I may be submissive to men but I am very much an alpha female and know I couldn't submit to another woman.

This is me to a T

[Guest ammy]

I'm sorry I didn't mean to abandon this post!

it's comforting to know that there are other people and all the things you all have said make it hard not to cry (sorry I do cry a lot) but especially the quote.. is it okay to make that my signature?

and I wish there were a song like "someday my princess or something will come"

I get overwhelmed a lot by how cg/l is just ddlg, if that makes sense? I tried tumblr but everything is about having a daddy, I don't mind that at all!! but I rarely see things unlike it..

but hugs to everyone

[JazziyBaby]

[PrincessSacrifice]

Ive not seen a lot about two females in a CG/L relationship and I'm in the same boat as JazziyBaby and ammy too

[PrincessSacrifice]

It's nice to see there are others out there who are interested in it

[howdy12]

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Edited November 16, 2016 by howdy12

[DaddyCue109]

My little had always been interested in playing with girls but was too shy to make a move.  She asked me to help.  We had a few playmates that we would meet then decide together if they would be good playmates or not.  In the time we were together we played with a few.  A couple for an extended time, others just once.

 

It was fun taking her and another girl on dates.  Seeing them hold hands and giggle and have fun.

 

She didn't really get into little space with them.  But a couple liked coloring with her, playing Pokémon-Go etc.

 

We had a lot of fun with it.

[Cloud]

My girl has this problem to an extent as well. She really likes girls and wants to have one join us at times, hang out, dates, etc. I think her biggest issue is finding out the dynamic, if she wants her to be a mommy and also take care of her or if she wants another little to do things with.  Not really sure where people find such specific partners though.