Guest MiniEmi Posted July 30, 2016 Report Posted July 30, 2016 Hi everyone, I just recently came out as Gender-fluid and I was wondering if any of the littles here are too and how do you deal with the fluidity of your gender? Or in general, is there ways that I can feel more comfortable about my fluctuating genders pertaining to being little? I hope that makes sense this can also be related to being trans or non-binary as well.
Harley_Quinn Posted July 30, 2016 Report Posted July 30, 2016 Hai I'm gender fluid. As a little when my gender fluctuates it usually just affects what I wanna watch. So instead of monster and ever after high I watch phinias and ferb or Dino movies. It also affects how I dress and present myself. Oh and the apps I play on too.
Guest QueenJellybean Posted July 30, 2016 Report Posted July 30, 2016 Hi! I personally am not genderfluid, but my Big Brother is. (My Daddy's other Little/Pup.) Generally, their gender doesn't come into play unless they want it to. When interacting with me, they are my big brother, but I rarely use male pronouns. When interacting with Alpha (my Daddy), they are sometimes more feminine, but usually just more playful and pup-like than a set gender. They like dinosaurs, and foxes, and diapers, and whatever appeals to them in the moment. Sometimes they wear dresses, and sometimes they wear boxers and ties. I guess we don't really view them as "girl" or "boy" things and rather as "people" things. I hope I helped a bit!
Guest MiniEmi Posted July 30, 2016 Report Posted July 30, 2016 Both of you helped a lot actually, thank you very much for commenting ! It makes sense that what we would want to watch or do in general would fluctuate, but also that we can be referred to with gender neutral pronouns. I guess it would just be a good idea to have a lot of options as to what we want to wear/watch, so we can just pick something different if our gender fluctuates?
Harley_Quinn Posted July 30, 2016 Report Posted July 30, 2016 I mean I do because my masculine side doesn't like dolls and girly stuff
aBratandaBaby Posted July 31, 2016 Report Posted July 31, 2016 Hi! I'm gender fluid/queer, I deal with it well I have both male, and female outfits, male and female stuffys cx heck I even have two different bikes! A purple one, and a black one, im very happy to be who I am, and everyone (ex caregiver wise) has been fine with it just do what feels best, if you wanna wear dresses and makeup one day, go for it! If you want to wear baggy pants and a t shirt thats good too! I wear a lot of boyish outfits, and get a kick out of it when people can't figure out my gender
cranboy Posted August 1, 2016 Report Posted August 1, 2016 i'm a trans little! i'm a little boy, but i still love dressing up for my daddy and getting all pretty and dolled up!
Guest MiniEmi Posted August 1, 2016 Report Posted August 1, 2016 Hello! It's nice to meet you all ^~^ thank you for replying to this, you've all been very helpful, and I don't feel so confused now! 2
HaschenHime Posted August 12, 2016 Report Posted August 12, 2016 I am gender fluid, I have a couple shorts i like to wear as "boxers". Otherwise I don't really change anything else.
princebambi96 Posted August 13, 2016 Report Posted August 13, 2016 Hi there! I'm genderfluid. It doesn't really affect my little space all too much. My Daddy uses she/her pronouns no matter how I'm presenting that day, and it works for me. Sometimes I wear pink and sometimes I wear blue, sometimes I watch Care Bears and sometimes I watch Voltron. All just depends on my mood! The best thing to do is to roll with it. Don't try to force yourself to feel one way or another.
derajwons Posted August 14, 2016 Report Posted August 14, 2016 Hewwo I'm a transboy. It's hard for me cos I want a mommy or daddy who understands me, I don't wanna be just some fetish or kink to them, you know? It stinks ):
princesschibi Posted September 4, 2016 Report Posted September 4, 2016 I'm gender fluid. I tend to go from one binary to Agender to the other and then back.
honeyraindrop Posted September 5, 2016 Report Posted September 5, 2016 I just recently came out (to myself mostly) as a nonbinary girl. It's weird to say but it's just something I've always felt- that I am neither gender, yet i'm okay with being seen as a girl. For now I feel like that's a label that fits me best (after much searching) and it feels good to finally admit to how i feel. As a little I like both "boy" and "girl" things. I just allow myself to like whatever I like and not limit myself because of gender.
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