Lonelylittle1246 Posted July 28, 2016 Report Posted July 28, 2016 My (ex) daddy left me before my birthday. He said he couldn't handle the distance anymore. He broke all his promises to me. He left me broken and I have lost all the trust I have for anyone in real life...getting into little space is impossible for me...I told him I was gonna get rid of the my stuffed animals and grow up and he said "that's great! I am glad to hear". I feel like I am gonna be alone forever. I feel so hopeless and alone. I am not pretty or skinny or anything guys find attractive. It's just really hard. I want to snuggle my stuffed animals But I can't...I can't even be little anymore...I am broken and I don't know how to fix myself...I want to be little...but I don't know how to be little alone and I don't have any friends who are littler so I am basically alone...please help me...
Princess-P Posted July 28, 2016 Report Posted July 28, 2016 OK so... As harsh as it may sound, your 18. You will get over it. If being little is who you truly are then you don't need a Daddy to just be yourself. As with all break ups, they suck. And there is usually a healing period. But it doesn't last forever. Maybe growing up a little is exactly what you should do. I'm not saying toss the stuffies and whatever else makes you a happy little. I just mean that all littles are actually adults first. We have life experiences, responsibilities, and self descoveries to make... Which is all part of growing up. Use your time being single wisely. Learn more about yourself and what makes you happy. Chances are that you probably weren't ready for a relationship if you don't know what to do while single and your ready to toss your lifestyle choice aside over some guy dumping you. Guess what? You will probably have many more breakups in your life. That's just the way it goes. Knowing yourself and how to take care of yourself will be the best way for you to deal with it. 3
TallNerd Posted July 28, 2016 Report Posted July 28, 2016 My (ex) daddy left me before my birthday. He said he couldn't handle the distance anymore. He broke all his promises to me. He left me broken and I have lost all the trust I have for anyone in real life...getting into little space is impossible for me...I told him I was gonna get rid of the my stuffed animals and grow up and he said "that's great! I am glad to hear". I feel like I am gonna be alone forever. I feel so hopeless and alone. I am not pretty or skinny or anything guys find attractive. It's just really hard. I want to snuggle my stuffed animals But I can't...I can't even be little anymore...I am broken and I don't know how to fix myself...I want to be little...but I don't know how to be little alone and I don't have any friends who are littler so I am basically alone...please help me... Focus on your friends and family. If you're unhappy about how you look diet and work out. It will take time but you will feel happier about your appearance, take pride in your appearance for yourself. You're young and time will heal your wounded heart.
Guest Miyu_Doll Posted July 28, 2016 Report Posted July 28, 2016 Be a little for YOURSELF and YOURSELF only, dear. This is YOUR space. You are the only one that matters now, and if you need some little friends to talk with, my arms are wide open! 1
Lonelylittle1246 Posted July 28, 2016 Author Report Posted July 28, 2016 I am trying to focus on the other things in my life. I just would like to find more friends interested in the same stuff as me. I was so dependent on him I don't know what to do now that he's gone. I want to keep up the life style I am just not sure I can get and I wanted to see if anyone had advice to help me out.
Guest PattyCake Posted July 28, 2016 Report Posted July 28, 2016 I have experienced things like this before as well, your best friend will be time. Do lots of self care, things you like to do. I broke up with my ex boyfriend/Daddy right before I went on vacation with my family. It was good to be around positive people and to keep myself busy, ironically, I never had time to cry/grieve our break up. But after the vacation I felt fine, I felt great even. Long distance is so hard. Kudos for you for even trying it and having some success! Just realize that it wasn't meant to be at this point in time and that there are better things waiting for you out there. Hope you feel better soon! 1
Poppet in Wonderland Posted July 28, 2016 Report Posted July 28, 2016 Princess P, took some of the words from me here. Relationships are hard even when not long distance, long distance can make things even hard. Yes, trust was broken and your heart also. Don't throw away the stuffies just yet, wait a bit. Don't force anything right now and try not to associate little space with your heartache. We've all gone through some heartache/broken trust at some point in our lives. Live your live for you and take care of yourself. Good healthy food, exercise/yoga, mediation works very well for me, have fun even adult fun, drink water and get rest. You are little for you, no one else.
Guest annemarie Posted July 28, 2016 Report Posted July 28, 2016 (edited) i've been through something very similar to this. twice i've had guys i was really attached to and totally dependent on leave me because they couldn't handle who i am because they couldn't handle themselves, let alone me. i tell you this because it completely tore me apart both times. the first time a little more than the second. i also tell you this, so i can tell you how i learned to heal. fake it till you make it. it sounds so ridiculous and cliched, but fake being happy without him and fake not needing him until you do. tell yourself you're beautiful and there is a daddy out there for you that will love you exactly the way you dream until you believe it. it really honestly does work and i know because now i'm with my oniichan and i'm happier than i've ever been in my life! *knocks furiously on wood* the saying "it gets better" is true. it's annoying as fuck to hear when you're the on the "it's not better yet" end, but it's still true and it's what you have to hold onto or this world will drag you into its darkness without any mercy. as for getting back into your littlespace, you probably can't get into it right now because you're so depressed about this guy leaving you and honestly i don't blame you. it hurts a lot. when you're really depressed, getting into littlespace is really hard. i promise you'll get over this guy and once you do, you'll be able to find your littlespace again. hence why i'd hold off on getting rid of your little stuff if i were you. you'll probably regret it once you're able to get back into your littlespace again. anyway, i hope this was somehow helpful and i hope you feel better soon! just remember you're amazing, beautiful, and totally worth more than some guy who can't even see that Edited July 28, 2016 by annemarie
Guest friendeavors Posted August 1, 2016 Report Posted August 1, 2016 (edited) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you aren't ugly if the profile pic you have is you. Embrace your body and be yourself. Personality, sexuality, and confidence are king in the dating game. Thoughts/ opinions of others don't matter. Someone doesn't think you are pretty, support your life style, etc? F* em. Just another face in the crowd. there's plenty of people for you to have healthy relationships (of all kinds) with, just have to put yourself out there and not be afraid of the normal negativity/ rejection that comes with that process. Grab a stuffy, chat up some new people, do something you enjoy Feel free to message me, I'm a bit sleepy so I just included what was on the top of my mind :3 Edited August 1, 2016 by friendeavors
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