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Posted

So why ? He is daddy dom bear and he cheating on me, he pretend at all with me. Can other daddy give me reasons if you cheat on your little, what make you cheat on her ?

Now I feel like I'm lost.

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Posted (edited)

I'm sorry to hear you had to go through this! Just like in a relationship, there are guys that will make bad decisions. On the other hand, there are those who are passionate, dedicated, and caring. I know it may be hard now but there will always be someone who will be there for you. Just stay strong. I've only been here for a couple of days but it seems like we have a very friendly community that can help you as well if you need it. Feel free to message me if you want to rant about anything as well. 

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Reasons for cheating include: Not knowing how to stop doing idiot things.

 

It's good though that he doesn't stick forks into electrical sockets. That's good, he's got that.

 

You were all that he could have ever asked for, and he didn't see it. Really dumb choice. Very simple.

 

Does he know not to run with scissors? Or play with his poop?

Edited by Burning_man
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Guest NeedToServe
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Because he's a moron? Does the reason matter? Why are you still with him? He will do whatever you allow him to. So looks like you might have to get used to it if you are staying with him.
Guest Moonpie
Posted

There are many reasons why he cheated...

He's a jerk

Can't keep it in his pants

Doesn't know the meaning of loyalty and faithfulness

I could go on

But I agree with the post above, why are you still with him? You deserve better and if he can't respect the relationship then hun, just go. You deserve better.

Guest Coyote420
Posted

Welll in my opinion if he cheated on you he was never a true daddy to you. When a person is a true daddy, he gives his all to the little. The fact that he cheated on you shows he was into it just for the fun stuf ....

I'm sorry you have to go through this and I hope you find a true daddy soon.

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Cheaters are bad people. If you don't leave him he will keep doing it because staying is telling him that its OK to treat you like shit.

 

You can call a cheater every name in the book... It doesn't matter. They don't care. They are doing whatever they want and your opinion doesn't matter. Its the one who keeps getting cheated on and doing nothing about it who needs a kick and to smarten up.

Guest Zephy
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I would leave him if you hadn't already as this would only turn out to be unhealthy for you. There are no reasons to cheat on your partner no matter what kind of relationship you're in - that's simply disrespectful towards your partner.

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he cheats once, he's an ass. he cheats more than once? well, people are going to treat you how you let them. you stay with him, you gave him a free pass. will he cheat again? maybe. probably. but you'll never really know if he's being truthful if he says he isn't.

Guest Cuppycakelol
Posted
There ish nuu reason to cheat I sowwy he being a meanie :(
Posted

If you know he's cheating, you should accept the fact hes not good for/to you. He might continue cheating if you stay with him so I would suggest thinking about your own good and finding someone who wants you and no one else :(

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Guest rosie chan
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cheating is literal garbage, the dude sounds like a dweeb. i strongly suggest ending things ASAP. i will agree, it's definitely easier said than done. but do it. why is he doing it? 'cause he's the definition of literal trash garbage. look it up, you'll see his name.

Guest friendeavors
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Someone that cheats on you doesn't genuinely care for you, that's all you really need to know. There's nothing you should/ can be doing to prevent being cheated on, it's a flaw in character.

 

Also, cheaters tend to have other poor qualities (eg: abusive) and should avoided / left immediately for your well being.

 

You can / should do better for yourself IMO.

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Guest ♪ ♩ ♫ ♬ⓇⓄⒷ♪ ♩ ♫ ♬
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their shouldn't Be a Reason   Just like any other RelationShips theirs Faithful Ness  :(

Every Daddy is Suppose to Be faithful to their little  Love  respect and Take care of their Baby Girls  -_-

 

People like that are Just  >:) Trash and my opinion 

  • 10 months later...
Posted

It seems to me that he is just that type of person. It seems to me it isn't you so much as it is him...

 

I suppose it is better to know about this as soon as possible and count yourself lucky for not being involved more than you were.

Posted

I hope that my answer doesn't reflect on me as a little or a person. i grew up watching the men (and some women) around me cheat and cheating is one of my biggest fears. I've been cheated on by my exs (vanilla relationships) and I suppose my former Daddy "cheated" to but, just because he cheated doesn't make him a  bad person. It makes him flawed.

 

Yes, cheating is bad!

 

But sometimes a person cheats because they are not satisfied with one aspect of their relationship however big or small it may be. They like everything they have but their is still something missing. Most people are afraid to lose everything but want their complete happiness so they cheat to keep what the have and gain what they don't. A lot of the times, they don't realize that cheating hurts the other person. They didn't say anything in an attempt to spare the persons feelings.

 

Some people are weak and want the cake and ice cream.  Some, like me would rather be honest and end things.  We have to realize that love and a relationship is a give and take. Sometimes we find the perfect partner, that is the person we can work things out with.

 

chin up baby girl, you are not alone, you have friends here.

Posted

Unpopular Opinion: I do not condone nor support cheating... however, sometimes it is not as it seems (in a VERY slim percentage).

 

Some people cheat for what can be considered more "legitimate" reasons (again, I don't condone it at all). As in they are mentally unstable, they can be in a very bad place in their life, they can be absolutely unfulfilled, etc. Just because a person cheats doesn't mean they are the scum of the Earth (all of the time) - sometimes they are working through things that we may not know about. And they are simply making wrong choices. Should we support these decisions? Absolutely not. Should we demonize someone who made a terrible choice during a dark part of their life? Also no. 

 

But no matter the reason - don't ever hold it against yourself. Even if the couple is stand offish with zero communication, there is never a blame on the non-cheater of the two. Because there are always things to do to handle these difficult situation. So don't blame yourself, but realize maybe there was something going on you didn't know of before ostracizing him. Should you forgive him completely and go back to him and act like nothing happened? Absolutely not - no matter the cause, there is very little chance of a cheater not cheating again. But try to find peace with the fact that it has nothing to do with you - that there is something wrong (on whatever level - bad place or bad person) with him.

 

Like I said - I would never forgive someone for cheating on me. Actually quite the opposite, that would be the big red "violent" button and I don't know how I would act. Give yourself time to grieve and hurt, that is normal and needs to be done. But once the dust settles, don't blame yourself and realize there are things left unseen. So much easier to say than do, I realize. But it will get you over him by doing so.

 

I wish you the very best of luck :heart:

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