New Daddy here

[Soberdonald]

Hi! I'm a new Daddy and I've never been in this kind of thing, and I really love my little, I just don't know what to do to make her fantasy a reality. Please help! Thanks

[Magi]

I guess the first question to ask is are you long distance or live close.

[Guest PetitPrincess]

Hi! Welcome in our forum. You can feel free to PM me to talk if u want!

[neko]

Maybe ask your little? you aren't going to get far in the relationship if you do not communicate with each other.

[Guest Zephy]

Unfortunately there's not much to go by. I get it you're a relatively new daddy that is struggling with this dynamic?

You love your little and want to make her happy. But without knowing your little and you giving us more information it's hard to answer such question.

Every little is unique in their own way and has different needs. I do think it may be best to communicate with your partner and together you can work it out.

 

If you want to talk I'm one friend click away. I'm a guy too if that makes things more comfortable for you.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

would love to help, but this question is too vague.

[Guest NeedToServe]

Yeah we might need to know what you mean. What fantasy?

[Moonbowed]

Ok-- Generally littles want to feel small, protected, and cherished.

 

They need structure sometimes, leniency other times.

A stern hand at one moment, and kisses all over their face the next.

 

So I guess, and again, this is just generally speaking, you should think of ways to let her know you want to protect her. It can be something so silly-- me and my Daddy play video games and whenever something comes after me he makes his character run over to protect mine while yelling, "Get off her!"

 

For your little it might be as simple as holding her in your lap when a thunder storm comes through, whispering reassurances.

 

As for letting her know how special she is-- text her good morning. Send her pictures of your day. Bring her small surprises home from the store. It can be as big or as small as you want.

 

But these are good places to start.

Tumblr is also a great place to start. Follow some little girl blogs. You'll pick it up soon.

 

But don't forget to ask your little what she want too. Most important source of information is her.

[NeptunesGreatestHits]

Hi, I'm also new to DD/lg. Tumblr has been a great place for info for me as well. Just be communicative.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

I actually disagree with the Tumblr idea completely. Tumblr is mostly full of actual little girls (teenagers in pigtails) and pictures that give you the entirely wrong idea about DDlg.

[Moonbowed]

Tumblr can be a dark hole. Definitely comes with the usual risks of the internet. But I've worked pretty hard to create a safe place for myself on there. So if you do use tumblr, insulate yourself well. It is what you make it.