My Daddy isn't very Dominate and would rather be a little himself.

[lil_lover06]

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost ten months and I have recently opened up to him about being a little. He is a very submissive guy, he has been trying his best to be a daddy dom for me, but does not enforce the rules and he is constantly suggesting that we both be little or we switch to a MdLb relationship.

[Guest GermanDaddyDom]

To be honest...

 

Consider anything ...but you'll never make a dom out of a sub. That just doesn't work.

[Guest Moonpie]

I agree with the above post...you cant make him into a dominant if its not in his nature..maybe try considering what he is suggesting as well

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I agree with the above posters. Keep in mind also that you don't have to be dominant to be a Caregiver. Loads of submissive ones exist. A common term for them is Service Daddy. Or switching!

[HeCallsMePrincess]

if it's not him, it's not him. maybe you could both find a dom outside of the relationship to bring in.

[Noodle42195]

Just as a suggestion..maybe he doesn't have the confidence to be dominant or maybe he believes that if he is too strict, that you will leave? I have been a Daddy Dominant for a while now and I am more of a Service Daddy than anything. I find comfort in knowing that I can be cared for and be dominant at the same time. Hope that makes some sort of sense.

 

Being dominant kinda sucks becasue you always have to be strict and give punishments and "keep your little in-line". It is not a very love feeling position. Being a little, ont he other hand, is full of love, freedom, choice, adventure...You can do whatever you like worry free. A Daddy Dominant hurts whne you have to punish and keep the rules. I know I never liked punishing my little with anything serious.

[Guest littlemissbri]

I'm in a fairly similar situation with my Daddy. He's submissive a good 95% of the time and at first I wasn't feeling fulfilled but then I really thought about it and we talked and we worked out what's been working for a bit now. He doesn't do discipline except when I'm being mean to myself but he comforts me when I'm scared, sad, anxious, etc and if I need help with something he does that too. Could your Daddy perhaps take on more of a 'big brother' role? He could also be little but he'd still be in control 'cause he'd be the big brother. You could take care of each other but ultimately he's still in charge. Just a suggestion. There are infinite ways to be in a little relationship and if you work together you may just find a way that works for both of you. 

[Guest Abradolf Lincler]

I agree with the above posters. Keep in mind also that you don't have to be dominant to be a Caregiver. Loads of submissive ones exist. A common term for them is Service Daddy. Or switching!

I'm in a fairly similar situation with my Daddy. He's submissive a good 95% of the time and at first I wasn't feeling fulfilled but then I really thought about it and we talked and we worked out what's been working for a bit now. He doesn't do discipline except when I'm being mean to myself but he comforts me when I'm scared, sad, anxious, etc and if I need help with something he does that too. Could your Daddy perhaps take on more of a 'big brother' role? He could also be little but he'd still be in control 'cause he'd be the big brother. You could take care of each other but ultimately he's still in charge. Just a suggestion. There are infinite ways to be in a little relationship and if you work together you may just find a way that works for both of you.

 

These seem like good suggestions, considering you've been with said person for 10 months and it's been okay, I presume? You can have your needs as a little met without being submissive. Being little isn't Inherently a submissive act.

[Littletiger420]

I am going thru something kind of similar, I only have one bit of advice that I am sure of, DONT SUPPRESS YOUR LITTLE FOR ANYTHING. I dont know any other way to deal with this or my marriage would be in a much better spot, but I know that much, dont lose yourself.