Types of punishments to give littles?

[Baby Princess]

Hi, I'm sure this is posted somewhere but I can't seem to find it.

My daddy and I are still exploring our dynamic but I asked him if he'd read some links regarding the lifestyle and he was all for it. I am able to find something on almost all topics except different kinds of punishments for if I don't follow his rules. If someone could point me in the right direction that would be much appreciated!! 

 

 

[Guest GermanDaddyDom]

Loss of privileges, early bedtimes, no Internet and of course a nice spanking.

[Big Red]

Bathroom control, telling you how much to drink and when you can go potty, should not really pass a hour however. Also having you take in spicy or hated foods or soap for cursing, or to go mute with a pacifier. Writing with your off hand the ABC's a bunch is also nice. Spanking is also fairly common play.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Generally speaking, I don't like to confuse the things I enjoy with punishments. Funishments are a great way to playfully be punished with stuff like spankings, if that's something you enjoy, but I tend to stay away from mixing sex or pleasure with a means to punish or discipline. For me, it sends mixed messages.

 

In my opinion, punish like you would a child. Let the punishment fit the crime. You didn't do your chores? You lose a privilege. You didn't eat your veggies? No dessert. You gave attitude and talked back? Write a little paper on how you should have spoken to your partner, or do something kind to negate your bad choice. Make the punishments matter, and make them things you genuinely won't like so the behaviors won't occur again.

 

Traditional punishments as stated above are great too, but from personal experience with myself and with children, if you are punishing for the intent to correct behavior, make it something they won't ever want to do again.

[Baby Princess]

Generally speaking, I don't like to confuse the things I enjoy with punishments. Funishments are a great way to playfully be punished with stuff like spankings, if that's something you enjoy, but I tend to stay away from mixing sex or pleasure with a means to punish or discipline. For me, it sends mixed messages.

 

In my opinion, punish like you would a child. Let the punishment fit the crime. You didn't do your chores? You lose a privilege. You didn't eat your veggies? No dessert. You gave attitude and talked back? Write a little paper on how you should have spoken to your partner, or do something kind to negate your bad choice. Make the punishments matter, and make them things you genuinely won't like so the behaviors won't occur again.

 

Traditional punishments as stated above are great too, but from personal experience with myself and with children, if you are punishing for the intent to correct behavior, make it something they won't ever want to do again.

 

I love the term funishments! Sometimes I act up just to be punished but in a playful way and thats perfect! Thank you so much for this reply, I'll have to show it to him!

[atxDD]

Funishments is exactly right, but sometimes rulebreaking can be serious business and needs an actual punishment.  Immediate punishment is best - like nonplayful swat followed by a timeout, squatting in the corner.