When you don't remember...

[Guest tempest]

I have a question. My submissive side runs very deep, to the point that there are times I can't remember what has happened once I'm out of a scene. I'm curious as to if anyone else has experienced this.

 

I also want to use this thread to impress upon other littles and subs to not let anyone you don't know and trust take you into your space. It's not safe. Trust me, I found out the hard way.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

this hasn't happened to me at this point. but yes, trust is very important. really, trust is so important with any kind of partner but especially in this case.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

It's happened to be before after a particularly difficult scene. This can be a symptom of subspace and/or sub drop, which has many definitions but the one I've used most commonly is a crash of your endorphins and emotions after a scene and that altered sense of being that comes with being so entrenched in a particular sensation. Sometimes, sub drop can be a bad thing due to neglect of aftercare or a scene going south, but for some people, it happens often regardless of how much care has been taken. My best advice is to communicate with your partner, and make sure you both know what each other needs after a scene.

 

And trust is so, so important! Only play with people you trust, or in the company of someone you trust who can monitor the situation.

[Harley_Quinn]

Sometimes daddy tells me things I can't remember and I'm like oh? I did what?!

[Guest NeedToServe]

Not happened to me yet, I do go very deep into my submission, but I would hope I would on,y truly lose myself in that way with someone I had trusted for a while. My brain is always ticking, thinking of my ultimate safety.