ddlg with kids

[lilkiddykat14]

So my boyfriend and I started getting into the ddlg scene this year. I have always felt like this is what I needed to be completely satisfied and I was correct. He is so good to me and cares for me very well. Recently we have started to talk about having a family and it got me thinking, how is this going to work when he is a father? I don't think this is something I would want to stop doing but I would if I had to. I just want to know how the littles with kids make this work for them or if have kids and having a ddlg relationship is even possible. any input on how to handle this or what you have done when having kids would be great! Thank you for your time    

[littlebylittle]

Hi,

I think you can find this post useful as the question was discussed:

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/9670-children/?hl=children

Short answer, yes it is possible (I'm not talking from experience but I read the post)

[pandababy]

I'm a little and I have kids. They like that I am playful and love to watch animated movies with them and color or do art projects. My daughter steals my stuffed animals all the time. The private side of being a little stays private, even from the kids. It's like asking if it's possible to have a sex life after kids. lol Yes, it's possible...it's just a little more discreet. 

[Guest Victoriafrommiami]

I am a daddy in real life and I learn more from kids about littles. It's nice to be able to care for real kids and learn about needs of littles. Don't worry and plan it out and you will have fun!

[HeCallsMePrincess]

it's totally possible. I have coloring books and stuffed animals and the kids don't find that unusual at all. as for the sexy stuff, well they're kids. so that's all kept private anyway. I usually refer to their dad as Daddy and he's usually the big decision maker in the house so it works out just fine for us.

[Guest BugBug]

The short answer is no it wont if you dont let it. Your life will change but I believe some of the amazing things about being a parent is you become closer with your own inner child.

What saddens me is that this is even a question and it keeps popping up on here.

People seem to forget that ddlg like anything else is a relationship after all. If you feel you are ready for kids then thats all that matters. You have the chance of being really close to your child by letting your little out. So give is a go thats my advice as a real life parent and a little.

[Guest NeedToServe]

Father is not the same as daddy. Daddy is not the same as father. Completely different. Of course to some it's a whole different story, and getting into much creepier mind sets, but genuine ddlg is nothing to do with.

[lilkiddykat14]

Thank you guys so much! This actually really helped me(: i appreciate your responses!