Irl friends

[Guest PrincessBabygirlKittenAnge]

How many have irl friends that are littles?

I have one for sure and then there are some others that I'm pretty sure are but I I have no idea how to bring it up.

And they're all cuter than me so I feel so jealous anywaus :/

And do you actually hang out and do little stuff? I feel like that would be so niceeee.

[BabyGiraffe]

My friends are littles I know it but idk how to talk to them about it either. Their kind of judgmental soo I'd rather not. I wish I had real little friends to hang out with and do cute stuff *le sigh*. don't think that way, just cuz you don't look like them doesn't mean your aren't a cutie in your own way <3

[Guest PrincessBabygirlKittenAnge]

My friends are littles I know it but idk how to talk to them about it either. Their kind of judgmental soo I'd rather not. I wish I had real little friends to hang out with and do cute stuff *le sigh*. don't think that way, just cuz you don't look like them doesn't mean your aren't a cutie in your own way <3

Yeah it's like impossible to bring up wit out it being weird

Yeah bt cute girls are so cute and my one little friend I feel bad bc I know she's cuter than me and deserves a daddy more than I do so like

It's hard to actually have little friends irl and get along with them :*

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I need rl friends to be able to tell them lol

[DeepSpaceDaddy]

Yeah it's like impossible to bring up wit out it being weird

Yeah bt cute girls are so cute and my one little friend I feel bad bc I know she's cuter than me and deserves a daddy more than I do so like

It's hard to actually have little friends irl and get along with them :*

Impossible? I think "difficult" would be a more accurate discription. :-) You actually CAN talk about anything if you approach it the right way, at the right time, under the right circumstances. Look for opportunities to talk about things that are related, or that hint without revealing, and see how they respond. Avoid talking about you or them at first, and instead talk about the topic/concepts/ideas or other people. Perhaps a scene in a movie, an episode of a TV show, something you or them observe in real life. Also, look for opportunities to reveal and show you are an open minded person and not judgemental about things in general, so that later, when you are talking about these things, they will feel (hopefully) that you're safe to confide in or talk to. It's very much a process, that will take some time to work up to, but it can be done - and if someone really is a Little, and is comfortable with it, they might love to have someone to talk to but be afraid of discussing it too, so once they figure out you're safe, you might be surprised how easy it ends up being. :-)

 

Annnnnd.... ~in a stern voice~ 1) Just because YOU think someone is cuter than you, doesn't mean they are to everyone else. :-) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, remember? Someone else might look at the two of you and think you're the cuter one. 2) Your cuteness isn't diminished just because you happen to think she's cuter. You're just as cute as you were before you met her. And 3) You BOTH equally deserve good daddies regardless of your relative cuteness. Every Little deserves a good Daddy. No Little is more deserving than another, simply because someone finds them cuter than another. :-)

 

So, I'm happy to say, it's not impossible, and she's not more deserving of a good Daddy than you. :-) Any other myths I can dispel for you today? :-p ~friendly hugs~

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I am very lucky to live in a community where the kink scene is thriving and very much alive and well. I actually only have one friend who I see in person that /isn't/ a Little. My best friend is, my girlfriend is, and most of my other friends I met at munches or events!

 

To answer the second part of the OP question, we don't do much differently than other friendships. We have play dates, and sleepovers, go to the zoo and aquariums. Shopping together is a lot more fun, and so are slumber parties and little days, though.

Edited July 22, 2016 by BabyBelugaBelle

[Little_Ella]

I don't have any little friends irl. Wish I did!!

[Harley_Quinn]

My best guy friend is a puppy so that's the closest I got

[SweetieKai]

My two best friends are Littles c: One of them introduced me to the community, and since we talked about it so much, my other friend tried it out and loved it ^-^

[Guest NeedToServe]

I would work on your jealousy issues first to be honest. That's not healthy, and will be a road block to making new friends that last.

Find local social events. I know that fetlife organise them, but I'm sure they can't be the only ones. Even if you don't specifically make friends with littles, there will be people there that don't judge and are open minded to accept who you are. I went to one last week and I loved it. If you are nervous about going alone, contact the event organisers who will probably arrange for someone to meet you there.

[Guest Zombiecakes420]

Yeah it's like impossible to bring up wit out it being weird

Yeah bt cute girls are so cute and my one little friend I feel bad bc I know she's cuter than me and deserves a daddy more than I do so like

It's hard to actually have little friends irl and get along with them :*

...hey sweetie...looks don't merit who deserves a daddy...nobody deserves a daddy more than anyone else hun...you may feel like your not good enough for a daddy but if you try real hard to let go of your insecuritiest and try to be open with a daddy you'll see how much you not only need it but deserve it and its the best thing ever when you finally learn to love yourself so a daddy can really love you unconditionally like he should