Awards? Penalties?

[David]

Hello, sorry about my english u_u

Well... I have some doubts about different topics

 

In this post I'm asking for two things

- First: What kind of awards, prize, rewards.... can I give to my little girl?

 

- Second: In case of bad behaviour, what kind of penalties, punishments... can I apply? (I mean.... soft punishments)

 

 

Thanks for the collaboration

 

David :3

 

[Guest Firefly]

Depends on the relationship.

 

Awards can be anything from a new stuffed animal to a night out to something special from Amazon. You might even think of a points system to keep her on track.

 

Punishment again depends on your relationship. Spankings, corner time, grounding, etc.

 

Biggest thing is talk to her, find out what she is OK with and not okay with. Go from there. Communication is key.

[UnicornBiscuit]

Awards - Sweets, cinema visit (movie night alternatively), coloring (books / pencils / other), games (board games you can play together or computer / PS / XBox games?), stuffies, clothing / accessories, shopping tour, visiting a theme park / pool / beach

Punishment - house work (cleaning dishes or anything she doesn't usually do or like doing), grounding (from toys, games or TV?), taking away favourite accessories / clothes, taking a dictionary and making her write down a page or two on a seperate sheet of paper 

[AdjYoshi.]

So what would you say is a good punishment/reward for a little..

[Princess Joe Joe]

Awards: a special trip, a nice dinner, a Disney movie night, new stuffies, new paci's, cuddles, playtime (sexual or otherwise), a new purse, a day off from chores, icecream, ect

 

Punishments (soft like you said (: ): no internet, no stuffie, corner time, cold shower -not to cold and not to long!!!!!-, a letter of apology, a spanking or two, kneeling, counting grains of rice

 

always remember aftercare after a punishment c:

[Harley_Quinn]

Awards: pamper day, trip to toy store, new Stuffie or paci, beach day

 

Punishments: no night time movie, Stuffie jail, spanking (a gentle one not a very hard one)