Crybaby

[Guest PrincessBabygirlKittenAnge]

I just got off the phone with my daddy (it's 2 am) and I am crying like crazy

I dont know what to do

We had a nice conversation and stuff but he is tired so he had to go to bed and

Of course he wanted to make sure I was okay and gonna sleep

So I knew he is tired and I told him I was fine and told him to go to bed

And now I can't stop crying

I had a point to this but I can't quite remember.

Basically I miss him like crazy but I try to not be too clingy to make him lose sleep but now I regret it bc I'm up alone crying. What do I do ?

[Guest GermanDaddyDom]

Always be honest... right away.

[Guest PrincessBabygirlKittenAnge]

Always be honest... right away.

Even if it will mean it's harder for my daddy?

[honeyboy]

I've experienced exactly the same thing - I'm so sorry :~(

Let him sleep, and when you're both awake and free to talk, explain to him how you're feeling. Tell him it's really hard for you right now. Even if nothing can be done about the circumstances, it's always a good thing to communicate your feelings. Then you can share the burden together rather than being up alone feeling sad :~( your daddy needs to know how you feel. Talk to him.

I hope you feel better soon xxx

[Guest PrincessBabygirlKittenAnge]

I've experienced exactly the same thing - I'm so sorry :~(

Let him sleep, and when you're both awake and free to talk, explain to him how you're feeling. Tell him it's really hard for you right now. Even if nothing can be done about the circumstances, it's always a good thing to communicate your feelings. Then you can share the burden together rather than being up alone feeling sad :~( your daddy needs to know how you feel. Talk to him.

I hope you feel better soon xxx

Thank you that was so sweet and yeah I will talk to him when he wakes up . Grrrrr communication can be so harddd.

[Guest GermanDaddyDom]

I can tell from my experiences... and I prefer you would not go to sleep crying than have an easy rest.

 

And I guess your daddy won't want you to go to bed crying too

[zzz]

From the perspective of the pyramid of needs.... sleep is a greater need than emotional stability. So let everyone sleep well, then address it in the morning.

When you do bring it up, try not to be blaming. Your daddy didn't do anything wrong and you want him to continue to feel like he can take care of himself properly without it being a bad thing. Approach it from the perspective of trying to find a solution. You want him to be able to sleep when he's tired without you feeling so lonely. So what are some things you both can do to make it easier for you when he's asleep?

 

In the mean time, when these things do happen, you can try to comfort yourself. Start by drinking a big cold glass of water to calm yourself down, maybe some calming tea, get comfy cozy, surround yourself with your favorite toys or movies or games, maybe make some designated late-night friends who you can chat with when you're feeling lonely. These are just a few ideas of things that might help you calm down.

 

Sometimes I get really lonely when Mister is asleep, but usually after a good rest myself I feel all better in the morning.

[lilsnoopy]

I happen to disagree... this is just me but if he is a daddy then that is what he's there for. In my relationship if I am ever upset then he will take care of me, even if he is exhausted. Maybe in normal relationships you should wait but if he is a daddy and he has agreed to take care of you then it is his job to look after you. For us (Daddy and I) My needs get put ahead of his sometimes, because I'm super super clingy and needy and he loves that, he finds that endearing and loves to feel needed and important. I understand that not always can my daddy dom be there but if he's asleep I could call and he would always calmly settle me down and be reasonable. If you have that situation again and are to the point of crying then it's in the relationship dynamic for it to be completely acceptable for you to call him. 

[DaddysLilCrybby]

^^^^^^^

Yasss! What lilsnoopy said - *all* healthy relationships require give and take - so, really, if the other person genuinely cares about you, they want to know when you're hurting anyway - however, the cgl dynamic is a little different - and, daddies/mommies know and appreciate this - they are aware of our extra needs as littles - and, we should feel completely safe going to them - it's very sweet of you to be so considerate - but, if you're so upset that you're crying maybe it's best to wake him