Can someone show me the ropes?

[Seri]

Hi! I'm not entirely sure how to ask of this. I should probably just do my research but I wanted to see what this was like... I thought it looked so cute and something I could want to be a part of. I know out of the two roles, I'd want to be a little, but I'm not exactly sure how or how to find someone who will do the other role. I'm sorry if this is kind of annoying, but I figured you guys would know more and be able to help me. I'm completely new to this, but I think it would be easy to learn. Just be cute... right? 

[KittensGoRawrrr]

Honey, it sounds like you have a lot to learn. The cg/l dynamic is about so much more than "just being cute". I highly suggest you look around the forum and take a (large) amount of time reading over all of the different posts. That'll help you more than any one of us could simply say here in a reply. I know you probably don't mean it, but some people will get offended with you assuming that DD/lg is simply one person being a "cute role", and the other being the opposite, or however you imagine it. To most people on this forum (I obviously can't vouch or speak for everyone), this is a lifestyle. This is more than just something to be done here and there - either you're a little or you aren't. Just like either you're a daddy or you aren't. 

 

Most importantly, this is really something you need to explore on your own. DD/lg and by extension, Cg/l relationships are unique to each person, and you need to find out what fits for you personally. It's unfortunately not something that any one, or even all, of us could show you.

[SugarPrincess]

i agree with kittens but in response to your title i would say there are such things as uncles or aunts that are platonic caregivers who (if you find one) might be willing to take you under their wing and show you what its like to be a little without the full commitment to a daddy before you know if its what you want. 

 

Do more research but even then everyone experiences it differently. some people like this some people like that. experiment a little with whatever you're comfortable with. i wouldn't suggest looking for a daddy(or mommy, whatever you like) until youre really sure you want this.

[Guest DragonDaddy]

I agree with the advise given above.

 

This is a lifestyle and every relationship is unique with different needs. There are also people out there that would take advantage of your vulnerability, so I'd recommend being careful and aware.

 

This forum is a wealth for information... The threads are informative and there are plenty of littles here to help you along.

 

Good luck and I hope DDlg is your chosen lifestyle as it's rewarding as much as it is magical xx

[Littleduck90]

So I'm new to all of this. Not sure where to post this but here seemed most fitting. A guy that I'm seeing kind of introduced me to it and the more I've read the more I've felt like it speaks to me and validates all the things people have frowned upon about me. We're not in an official dd/lg relationship yet but I think I want it to go there. He's very encouraging and naturally caring and nurturing but I'm having a hard time letting my little out in front of him. I've always been very shy and so I feel like little me is like terrified of being seen cause no one has ever accepted that side of me. Any advice? I feel like I probably just gotta jump in but it's scary!