tianasandra Posted July 16, 2016 Report Posted July 16, 2016 I want too know how you stay within your headspace long distance. Im in Toronto, and my daddy is in Ohio, it's really far and frustrating as I feel like I am an incredibly needy little. I need the attention and crave it. I regress to a 7-12 year age gap and its frustrating when were not on the same space. Should I ask him if we can actually create a routine or schedule? I need more training and even though Im going to visit him, I need to know he's there How do you manage it?!
HeCallsMePrincess Posted July 16, 2016 Report Posted July 16, 2016 not long distance at all, but a schedule seems like a really good idea 1
tianasandra Posted July 16, 2016 Author Report Posted July 16, 2016 Thank you ! I just need to figure it all out
Guest GermanDaddyDom Posted July 16, 2016 Report Posted July 16, 2016 You could both make a schedule plan and compare it.. see where you can have regular quality time together. LDR is sometimes hard to manage but if you make the best out if your time you will make it.
PrincessEevee97 Posted July 19, 2016 Report Posted July 19, 2016 I know how you feel with the long distance relationship my daddy lives in Washington state and I live in Ohio and me and my daddy used to always talk and everything but then he stopped talking as much I will go at the max a month at a time with out hearing from him and I don't know what he is doing but I always message him in between the times he does talk to me and I feel very clingy and needy
GlitterUnicorn Posted July 19, 2016 Report Posted July 19, 2016 (edited) Daddy and I are on different continents and with a five hour timezone difference It can be very hard when you're in the little headspace and he isnt. Try actually saying it. "Daddy I feel so little today" Haha it works for me. But then again you can't always expect him to be in Daddy headspace, that is unless you're in a 24x7 Ddlg relationship. If you're not then understand that any relationship is about compromise. You give in sometimes, and sometimes he does. It goes both ways. To be honest, a schedule doesn't sound that appealing. Wouldn't it feel forced? You have to be a Daddy/little at so and so time? I'm not sure. Just my views Try maybe some cool long distance apps or actually even on the forum there's a huge list of things to do when you're in an LDR. Try working on that too. Hope this helps. Edited July 19, 2016 by GlitterUnicorn
kimi Posted July 25, 2016 Report Posted July 25, 2016 (edited) Fluffyfirefox97 ... I know exactly what that feels like. My Daddy lives on the opposite coast and it gets really hard at times. I always want to communicate with him and he resists communicating with me because we can not be on the same coast just yet. Three thousand miles is very far away but not in my heart. My Daddy pops up from time to time and he says it is too hard to be without me, but from my point of view, I would take whatever second I can have. Sometimes for me it's frustrating and other times it's just sad. Sometimes my mind wanders and I think he has forgotten about me. I struggle with it ever day. If you figure out how to deal with it, would you tell me the trick? If I figure it out, I will let you know, k? Hugs ... kimi Edited July 25, 2016 by kimi 1
Guest QueenJellybean Posted July 25, 2016 Report Posted July 25, 2016 You've got some great advice up above, so I won't harp too long! But there are some greats apps you can utilize to help ease the distance. Choremonster is wonderful for LDRS; we use it at home for my live-in relationship. The ability to be held accountable, and how highly customizable it is works great! Plus, it puts your Caregiver in charge of you more. Couple is an amazing app that I highly recommend. Complete with cute features like Thumbkiss, the joint drawing board, and a calendar you can use to schedule and plan, it's a long distance dream! I use it with my potential Caregiver who lives literally across the country. Snow is an app like Snapchat that seems to be catered more towards Littles with its plentiful filters from puppies to bunnies to pacifiers. Check it out, I'm in love.
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