Advice??

[babymandyy]

How do you keep positive while trying to find a Daddy dom, because it's really really hard and I'm genuinely afraid it won't happen?? 

[cutie_patootie]

Hi Mandy,

 

You've mentioned a topic with which I find myself all too familiar but for one exception... I am a lesbian little searching for a Mommy.  And lately it's caused me blue moods which have led to blue moves...  Still, I carry on trying to be as positive as I possibly can under difficult circumstances.  

 

A few things you may want to try?  Treat yourself... to something new ie-new music, go see a new movie, have a special yummy Summer treat (ice cream cone or DQ treat), buy yourself something nice to wear (a cute sundress) or some new lingerie--wearing nice lingerie almost always helps me feel pretty inside... even if I'm the only one who knows I'm wearing new panties or lacey bra or soft camisole, go out to lunch or dinner with a special friend, take a trip to the park (with a packed lunch) and play on the swings and slide and monkey bars although you might need these if you go...  http://monkeybarbuddies.com

 

Either way, don't be afraid to go out and live your life while you wait for your very own special Caregiver.  And if you need someone to just listen... I have two ears, one heart (slightly damaged), arms meant for hugging and no judgement.

 

cutie_patootie... aka Carly

[Strictly Affectionate]

Hey sweet pea,

 

Listen to Carly. She said all the right things, especially that blue moods lead to blue moves. Be careful when you're down. My advice for what it's worth - Find a trustworthy little friend and learn from each other until that loving, protective caregiver finds you. And find you he will.

 

Hugs and kisses

[Guest tempest]

I feel your fear, I try to be playful and flirty often to hide my own. Carly has sound advice, just know that you aren't alone. A lot of us sit on the sidelines watching. Our day will come.

[beingthesubme]

I agree with Carly. And I so understand this. 

For sure practice self care...and going to build a bear or a toy store alone can be fun.  

[Guest Don Pablo]

try to see the benefits from being alone, it might be hard if you truly crave a romantic relationship tho. 

 

treating yourself is a good way, like carly mentioned. also surround yourself with friends and people, try to make new friends and you wont feel as lonely. 

 

also, what has helped me lots, encourage yourself. before you leave home, look in the mirror and say something positive about yourself

[HeCallsMePrincess]

honestly, I was lucky. I found Daddy long before we found ddlg. we have been together almost 10 years and just came across ddlg. hold onto hope though.