Guest littlerapunzel Posted July 12, 2016 Report Posted July 12, 2016 So I'm a mom and that can be confusing as a little for many reasons. I find that when I am tired or stressed (which is a lot as a single parent of 2) that I need my little space more than ever and yet I have the kids that rely on me. I am in the process of discovering my little and I don't have a Daddy to help me yet. Even things like...where do I keep my little gear???!!! Hahaha Are there any other little parents out there with any advice?
Guest Don Pablo Posted July 12, 2016 Report Posted July 12, 2016 (edited) https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/10547-marrieds-with-ddlg/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/7193-single-littles-with-children-no-dd/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/9821-parent-littles/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3-jealous-of-your-daughter/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/8693-daddys-who-are-actually-dads/ those are some similar topics you might to have a look at edit: changed the links Edited July 12, 2016 by Don Pablo
Guest NeedToServe Posted July 13, 2016 Report Posted July 13, 2016 I am the mother of three boys from pre teen to late teen. I just separate the two because being a mother comes first.
HeCallsMePrincess Posted July 13, 2016 Report Posted July 13, 2016 I'm a little with three boys. they'll be 9, 10, 11 soon (very close in age, i know lol) all my little things belong in our bedroom, because it's always been off limits to kids unless it's an emergency or someone gets sick. i do have a Daddy, who happens to be their step-father and father, which is handy. i have found most grown up stresses, like my job, bills, etc makes me yearn for little space to just take a break. it's actually not too difficult for me to have grown up life vs little space. after the kids are in bed or when they're at the grandparents is the perfect time.
Guest littlerapunzel Posted July 14, 2016 Report Posted July 14, 2016 Thank you so much everyone who related their experiences. I am learning to balance the two parts of myself. Sometimes it means I stay up a little later than I should so I get that time to diffuse. Some stuff I can have in my regular life...like my favourite stuffie (my kids don't find that weird at all haha)...and some stuff I keep in a special dracer (like my pacis and stuff). I find it hard to feel like I have to hide my little self but I guess that's what this forum is for:) So that kind you everyone for making me feel less alone.
Guest NeedToServe Posted July 14, 2016 Report Posted July 14, 2016 Sadly we will always have to hide it from the outside world, be that society in general, friends or family, and our own children. Yes they will appreciate a certain amount of fun and childlike qualities, but more than that they need an adult, responsible parent. Being a mother is hard but we make that choice the moment we allow ourselves to get pregnant, but I'm sure I don't need to tell you that, lol. You just learn how to deal with the challenges, no matter what they are. Find other ways to express yourself in that way such as here, like you say, in alone time, start a tumblr blog maybe, join other sites etc.
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