Is it unlittle like to do these things?

[Neko-chanSkys]

I really want to find a caregiver or Daddy but my issue is I like a lot of hardcore things, heavy metal, death core, skate boarding, playing electric guitar, dirt biking, playing fps and 3rd person action adventure games etc but I'm not sure if all of these things will make me less appealing to a caregiver or Daddy. Maybe I should let go of my adventurous side? What do you caregivers, daddys and doms think?

[Guest GermanDaddyDom]

Don't give up on yourself for someone else.

 

A daddy is for helping you, comforting you, making you happy.. not for changing who you are. If you love those things.. find a daddy that loves it too

[Guest Abradolf Lincler]

Don't be a boring clone little version 3.56789

[LolitaDaddy]

No, not unlittle. You do sound like a middle little, just not a little little.

First of all, we all should be mentally adults when start any adult relationship, which you sound like you are.. good.

Why do you think you want a "caregiver" or a daddy? While a little's daddy is generally has to be caregiver, a middle's don't.. she's "daddy's big girl."

Maybe what you are looking for is a daddy (play) partner for your middle?

Edited July 12, 2016 by LolitaDaddy

[Guest Don Pablo]

it's not your likes and hobbies that make you a little, aslong as you feel little, you are.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I am covered in Tattoos, Play mass amounts of video games, Im a whore for Mosh pits and I live for heavy metal music. None of this makes me less of a little (Im accurately more of a middle truthfully)

 

@mermaidxsirena can tell you the same thing as she as well is heavily tattooed and a bit of a Masochist (or a lot of a Masochist lol) - And she's taught me a few things about being Little. 

 

We all come in different flavors! We are like snowflakes - Not 2 of us are Identical. 

 

Welcome to the Playhouse! <3

Edited July 12, 2016 by Lil' Miss Dolly

[Little_Ella]

I'm into metal, horror movies, tattoos, piercings and all sorts of "unlittle" things but I'm still very much a little. If you feel little you are little

[Guest thatlittlerebella]

There's no such thing as something being "unlittle like." And anyone who says otherwise, you can tell them to stick it where the sun don't shine. We all have different interests and likes, so do Caregivers! Just keep being yourself. 

[Guest NeedToServe]

So many people think being a little is about build a bear, fairy princesses, cute frilly dresses, disney and being tiny, young and petite, being all giggly, cute and blinky eyed. It's not. At all. There are no stupid rules. It is not "one size fits all".

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

There is no one way to be a little. My taste in a lot is more bittersweet compared to just a lot of fluff. I love black with pastels and skulls and bohemian clothing in little space. Actually the song daddy gave me is Demon lady by debauchery, and it's NSFLS (not safe for little space). My middle space is a lot more expressive, but over all I'm the same way. BTW, you can like bugs and dinosaurs too, you don't have to be all girly!

[HeCallsMePrincess]

everyone is into something different! it's important to have likes and dislikes and hobbies. none of those things make you less of a little. they just make up your personality. if we were all supposed to be one thing I doubt very much any of us could call ourselves Little!

[CurlyBear]

This question and these answers are so helpful!! I was wondering the same thing for a while because I'm not very girly. :C While I don't mind girly things, I just don't go out of my way to buy a dress or crown or cute bows. My first pick is a baggy tshirt and jeans. And I was scared while seeing all this girly stuff that I wouldn't fit in very well even though one of my really good friends is more punk than I am and she is a little! But reading this makes me feel a lot better!

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I dress kinda goth rockabilly girly? I am definitely more of a Ruby Gloom than a hello kitty kinda gal. There's no wrong way to be Little. Just be you!

[thatlilturtle20]

There is no guide that says "How To Be A Little". Being little is unique to every little. No one is entirely alike. You don't have to be interested in the cutesy, girly things to be a little. I, for example, can be on both ends of the spectrum. Sometimes I'm into pastels, skirts, dresses, and cutesy things. Other times, I like dark, muted colors, rock/heavy metal music, soccer, and video games. It all depends on who you are. You don't have to stop liking the things you like or change who you are when you are expressing your little side. Your caregiver will like you for you and adjust to who you are. They are there to help make you a better version of yourself, not mold you into some stereotypical little. 

[Guest lullabydollface]

I love pastels and skirts and girly things but I also love four wheelers and punk/rock/screamo music. I love the color black and I'm a writer/poet so I am in touch with darker things but I'm not into gore. I think we are all individuals and the uniqueness of the things that we enjoy is what makes us so special! There's definitely a caregiver that will totally take you skateboarding and then come home for some snacks and video games! It can be really really hard to not just give up all that you are and be who we think people want but you have to keep trying to be who you are and find the person who also likes that!

[kimi]

I love stuffies and coloring and storybooks. I love cartoons and playing board games. I listen to jazz and classical music (no words, all instruments) and that's just me. My wardrobe consists of jeans and teeshirts and sneakers. Mostly all of my teeshirts have pictures of Snoopy or Calvin and Hobbes or something Disney on it but none of it is pink. I don't wear bows in my hair and I don't own a dress, not even a sun dress. I'm a little (4-8) and I'm more of a tomboy. I'm okay with me as I am, and my Daddy accepts me just that way. There is someone for everyone just as they are.

[Glitterdemon]

I wear mostly black (my lil' frilly skirts are black) and am pretty morbid, but I was kinda a creepy lil' girl anyway. *giggle* Being Little to me is more of an emotional place where Daddy makes all the uglies go away; the self doubt, the insecurity, the fear and loneliness... so it really doesn't matter what all those cutesy memes say!