How do I know?

[Neko-chanSkys]

So I am 18 and have liked the idea of Ddlg ever since I was 15 but never tried it until now since I turned 18 2 months ago. A lot of Caretakers, Doms, Daddy's etc like me but I'm not sure if it's actually for my personality. I've always been told my looks should be envyed but I never paid mind to it until I started my Daddy search. All these doms talking about the sexual aspect but never taking anything I say seriously or take it as a flirt. How does a Real Dom, Daddy, caretaker etc show his love is real? And where is the best place to find a real one who is not in it for my face or body?

[LolitaDaddy]

You are on the right track to refuse any you don't feel right about.

A "real" DD would care about you 1st before his own "wants."

Best wishes to you.

Edited July 12, 2016 by LolitaDaddy

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

It's always going to be hard. I do suggest reading through some of the posts about how to spot a bad caregiver and what the flags are. It's especially good to know the difference between someone really interested and some fuckboy or a dude that's going to ghost you a week later. Just be careful and I wish you luck.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

think of it as any relationship. you wouldn't meet a guy and tolerate him talking about sex right away, or things like that. any DD will care about you as a person before anything else. any guy that makes you uncomfortable or makes you feel weird, listen to your gut and end any conversation.

[Guest WendyBaby]

The same with me here. I am the one who always been scared to know a guy. And i am sometimes always hard to them. I have a big trust issue to someone else. In this side, a guy. But in the other side, i really want to find someone who would love me for who i am. And will not ghost me in the future.